Did I screw it up?

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Day four into the no contact rule.

I cut my bangs as I thought this would be a good start to the new me and changed my main picture on facebook to one with me with my new haircut.

I remembered right afterwards that my ex had always wanted me to get bangs. I was doing this subconsciously to get him back and realised it soon as I had already changed my facebook picture. I also never change my main facebook picture, so changing it all of a sudden, to one with me with bangs…do you think this looks to my ex like a cry for help from my end? Would I have to start again from Day 1 of no contact? Or do you think it’s a completely alright thing to do during no contact?

Another thing I did was post an animation of a man and a woman in love, dancing, in our main program group on facebook and wrote “this animation is breathtaking”. A lot of the people from our program liked it. (we are both studying animation in university and this is a page where people from our program post things) Was this a bad thing? Does it change my position in no contact?

Basically, do you think after I did these two things i have to start no contact all over again, or should I just continue it from day 4?

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You are ok. If he remembers telling you about the bangs then he might think that but might also just be distracted by how good you look with it! If in the future he were to bring it up (highly unlikely) act completely oblivious. “Oh I just wanted something new” or “my friends always told me I’d look great with bangs” the animation was harmless and he will think nothing of it pertaining to him. Now if you wrote something with the video that implied you were sad by it then yes. You’re ok, there’s no need to start no contact over because you didn’t contact him.