K.W,
Thanks for the thoughts, I will continue NC… I have signed up for Kevin’s email and they are helping…But you bring up a good point… “Facebook”
K.W, Dara, A.Z, David,
I know that Kevin mentions the use of social media… I Don’t Have a facebook… Actually, My ex didn’t either… We were both kinda against it. I personally never cared for it, so I never wanted one.
Do you think it would be a good Idea to start one up?
Joe,
Its all up to you. I believe its good to some extend. Some women believe that having Facebook means being more social but don’t act obsessed in posts/ status updates.
If she doesn’t have one,she may not find out about it.but you can add mutual friends.but if you are doing that,be positive and follow what kevin said about it.
Joe
I agree with what a.z. and dara are saying.
K.W
I hope your doing well… I need a little help here…
https://www.forum.exbackpermanently.com/boards/topic/is-it-over-please-help/page/4/
Joe
I am doing well shockingly, I actually have a date with a new guy tonight so we will see how it goes.
as for you if you felt a connection with one of the girls I would keep going for her honestly.
Goodluck to you.
I noticed your comments. What was the outcome? I am going through it just now as my ex block my son and I, and may have deleted all my photos. She left me wanting to still be friends and I told her I couldn’t do it. I still have her photos up but have been following no contact for eight days which she is not use to. What are your thoughts here?
Darren60
I wouldn’t be to worried about it , going on dates helps a lot. Sure I still think about my ex but honestly I couldn’t see myself getting back with him. Through the time I did no contact I thought I was miserable without him I really wasn’t. I was never happy with him. He was what I needed at the time. I definitely feel good about myself. Going on dates helps so that way you can see a comparison. I went on a date best decision ive ever made since me and my ex broke up. That’s when I realized that my ex was never the right one for me. Trust me you have to make yourself happy, it took me a long time to realize that . Just keep following the plan, but most importantly work on yourself. I know its killing you , trust me I was in your shoes two months ago. It gets better. I only realized about a month ago that Im much happier without my ex.
hows it going guys? would really like to hear more about your stories!