Day 11 of No Contact... &...Problem!

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So I’m doing the no contact process.

I’ve actually had to start over a few times.

The guy I’m trying to keep my distance from is in the same social chat site and gaming group I’m in, so I have had to just stop visiting those places all together to stop running into him online.

I’ve hit the 11th day and he sent me a private message thru the chat site (he could see I was online), that he deleted ooVoo (an online voice/video chat program, it’s the only other place I have contact with him) and if I ever had to reach him, that the forums were the only place now.

That shook me up right quick. I wanted to respond immediatly and ask if he meant he deleted the program from his computer and phone, or if he just deleted me as a contact, and I wanted to ask him why he was doing this.

I’m scared that if I don’t respond to him he’ll take it as me being mean and cold.

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Don’t do it – you got this.

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Exactly

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Thanks Jupiter, Timmy. I kept my distance-- and I’m on Day 17!!

I have another huge worry tho. We’ve never met in person, we had a distance thing going on, and communicated online. I was going to travel to see him, but then he broke things off before then.

A cooncidence has popped up, and my workplace is actually sending me to the city he lives in, this month!! After my 30day no contact ends, I only have two days before I leave.

I don’t know If I should tell him that I will be in his neighborhood or how to even tell him, after staying silent for so long and then just with two days left, let him know that I am going over.