Hi guys, I happened to stumble across this site - and I’m glad that I did.
Long story, but my g/f and I dated for 4 years and had some sexual anxiety issues on my part (I’m a dude). It took me a long time to man up to this and admit it, and see a doctor.
In this period she grew more and more dissatisfied with me and tried breaking up a few times, until she actually did. We lived together for 3.5 years and now she’s gone with the dog.
Before she moved out she mentioned how much she loved me, and how some space could help her get over the issues at hand. I know she’s sleeping with her personal trainer and was before she even moved out. We were broken up 2 months before she left.
I love her and blew up her phone. Then called her a week later and she mentioned that she’s at peace with her decision and that I’m too volatile + doesn’t know when she wants to see me again. Originally we had agreed to meet up in 2 weeks, but me feeling so insecure I couldn’t wait it out and not get her back.
Does anybody here think that NC will work? It’s been 5 days since we’ve talked - and close to 2 weeks since she’s moved out.
Thank you