breaking down..pls help

@tami420

Anyway, besides the sweet updates between them, he also update the status and said “relationship will be successful based on 2 things : finding right person and being with right person” i was like…really? Less than a month we broke up and u move on with someone else and i guys just been 2 months together and u said she is right person? U gotta be kidding me. Im so hurt right now :frowning:

@aryyan: yah he said he doesnt love me but doesnt hate me either… he knows i hope for us being together again… but sorry… he is the best at hidding his feelings and faking how he feels… and i do not believe he unloved me just like that… he tried hard to make things work betwen us, but he gave up after i had a bad day. how can he forget me so fast if it was the first time in his life he actually was in love and was loved and giving feelings and opening up? he knows i know him better than anyone. i told him i dont belive he doesnt love em anymore just like that and he bite his lips and smiled saying i dont… and he needed to do that with his lips so i focused on something else than looking at if he is faking or not… and i know he did. when i asked him for being friends he didnt say no , when i told him if he can answer when i text him he said i dont promise , maybe in some time yes… i can see he is sad. however if he loves me or not … that doesnt matter because i hope i can make him fall in love again after some time… it will take alot of patience but honestly… it will be worth it. i am ok with his decision, i am going on and will no break down for a guy… even if i will love him for long long time, i will not ask him to be with me again. not even once. if he willw ant to be he will say by himself, i will not.

yes by reminding him i mean contact him… when u are strong enough not to cry and beg him, but so u can act okay and happy and fresh… so u dont seem devastated. talk to him a bit after the NC…
it is okay to cry, take it all out… it has do go out or it will bother you for even longer… ofc u arent feeling well since ur love has a new gf and seems happy… its understandable, and not wrong. but stay strong and try to smile and be positive no matter what happens. i know its hard, 24/7 its hard… and it doesnt get any easier, you just get to live with the hurt u feel… :confused: if u want we can get a contact somewhere else when you can always write down to me about ur feelings and so

oh lol… what a ridicilous status… maybe he thinks she is right and all… or maybe he is thinking about how she isnt right. you cant know … but be strong in any situation… update ur status maybe to feeling better or something… anything that will make him know you are not devastated … i know they say not to update anything, but maybe a update about urself or a picture when ur out wont hurt… idk just my oppinion

@tami420

Yah sure. We can contact somewhere it will be easier for u and me to talk about these situation. But im not sure how. Kevin said we cant exchange our email here. Need to get through with him.

or i can give u my false email i use just for games xD i can write it here and then edit the post and delete it

@tami420

Ok sure. Whatever that its easier for me and u to share more ^.^

you online so i can post my email ?

@tami420

Yes im online now

@tami420

Well, i went to hospital just now to take my test blood and i think i saw my ex with her :frowning: bad day today. She had appointment i think and of course he with her right now! While im going alone by myself. And he wears the shirt i gave to him :frowning: what a bad day. Sigh

why bad day it a good day for you where he still have a feeling for you and he his wearing the shirt you gave him.

and what about the result of check up of the blood. I think it high blood pressure as you see him with her.

I apologize I was just kidding. hope you don’t mind.

@kavin yadav

Seeing him with her in the same place while wearing shirt that i gave to him? :frowning: supposely with me and not her. They seems very good tho. Laughing and teasing and sitting very close. Sigh.

Huhu still waiting the result. I hope its not that high after i saw them. Hihi

omg really?? did he look at you or anything? did he seem happy with her? itsy cute he was wearing ur thsirt actually it reminds him of you while he isw ith her… how did the test go? god im sure u feel bad having to see them together… so how did u react , did u pass by them or just saw them by far? if he saw you, i hope he saw you happy… i still need to write my email: -> write me here and i will send you the other one i use regulary :slight_smile:

… me and my ex met yesterday in front of my house and i said HI with a smile in a good mood… and i was really in a good mood lol… and he smiled back said hi… and then he was totally lost in his thoughts when i looked at him before i left with my friend… god im sure he thought i will send him a text cause of seeing him and he thinks i cant resist him anymore… i can i guess but hard… he didnt contact me either so… uhhhhm… idk what to think about the situation right now…

@tami420

I email u alreAdy. Did u get it?

yees :))