well im not really over doing it, just looking to be dressed nice, putting some maskara on my eleyshaes and powder and thats it. usually i was just natural so this small change makes a big difference and its not overdoing it i hope
awwh, that sucks… hm i think that he has her now, he doesnt need to contact you, since atm you’re not missed enough he has her to miss atm, but that wont last too long, im sure it’s a rebound… 9 days and he is already seeing someone else, that isnt too promising. He wants to find you in her and when he realuzes he wont… then maybe you will be on his mind again! LETS HOPE SO. i hope the best for you, stay strong and positive. but same time prepare yourself if you are going to get ur hopes broken… we all have this option-to get even more broke, but we prefer to hang on the hope …
Hehe thats good! Less is more! Different is good. Keep it up and i hope he will always remember how pretty you are and he will miss your smile and everything.
I think so. Maybe he has her. Right now, i see that everytjing is happy between them. They even tease each other in fb. It hurts me a lot when they post so sweet status like i dont even exist. He doesnt contact me at all to talk about it. Its not fair. I really hate it. I should be the one who tease him, cuddle with him and sweet with him. Not that boyish girl! I hope its a rebound. Its been 6 weeks they been together and 9 days i didnt contact him. I just hope he will miss me and realized that when he with her its not as good as when he with me
@aryyan: i hope that too. omg how sad i got now about it remembering all what he said, the moments when we were in bed 10cm apart face to face looking at his eyes and talking and omg… </3 his amazing blueeeee eyes with the perfect shape . i wish those moments back as soon as possible…
oh they are 6weeks together, well the first weeks are always the best and the being in love is always cute, but what when he starts to really know her, maybe he wont love what he sees and gets from her anymore… and will want you back… but really no matter how hard it is work on yourself, you are most important for yourself ! even if he stays with her, do not loose your ground . he might miss you after 2weeks no contact, you cant know if he check on his phone to see if u wrote something , you know. I saw my ex checking on his phone yestersday having a dissapointed face that second - no text from me so ya… he is waiting for it but…not getting it anytime soon… maybe ur ex is also waiting. in some time talk to him and tell all the good things u’ve been doing and so . make him realize how good you are and how imrpobed u became while he was having the time of his life with that one. he will maybe want you back.
Omg! I know right!? His eyes also sooo charming. He kept me blush when he look at me right thru my eyes and he used to say that he liked to make me blush. He said its very cute and innocent. But yah. Those memories. Oh dear, i really love him and i want him back.
Well, i dont think he check up on me. He got her remember? Everything for him is perfect now who am i? Im just a girl who he used to have feelings. Now im just remain silence. I didnt update anything. At all. Even in my social media. Thats so hard. Yah i try my best to maintain ny skin, slimming and try my best to keep busy too. But at the end, when i go to bed, i will remember him. Its so hard when he used to be someone whocan share anyhing and right now im just here.
@aryyan:
yah so amazing. and his hands and strong arms pftttt how i want to touch him again and be touched by him, siiiiiiiighhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhh, god… sometimes i feel like im a idiot, for trusting him and letting him everything what he hoped for. i was sexual abused and never let anyone touch me, bf or not… but he… he got everything, my soul,heart,mind and body… and now i feel bad that the only person i gave my all didnt apreciate it enough… or idk… so frustrating…
well honestly, your situations isnt really the best neither a good one… really i think you should focus on yourself, and maybe try to do some good things for urself. and hm prepare urself for being broken, but dont completly give up. its sad when u share so much with someoen and then become just like strangers… i feel like he only sees my friends when we hang out and doesnt even want to look at me, but… im wrong i hope. i believe it is hard… i hope he weill realize what hes missing without you.
I know exactly how u feel! Man, why they did this to us…? Even his smell, i can totally remember it! But sigh…right now she got all his attention! His time, his smile, his sweetness, his smell everything! She got it all! Right after we broke up! I feel like i want to…urgh! That girl. I have to be strong and honestly i still crying and dying want to see him and text him but i cant. Oh dear. I dont know i have a chance or not to get him back. I even not sure whether rhats a rebound or not. Other people said they are rebound even she is his bestfriend. Hopefully
@arryan: ya !!! omg and his side of bed we shared…still has his smell and his perfume 1million paco rabbane in my room…omg god i miss him. and driving around with him,talking,laughing,loving,caring all that… I am only happy he doesnt have any other girl in mind, aside me, and even that idk…) i wanted to suggest him for being friends with benefits, but it may be a bad idea… huh or maybe not, we had a strong connection on a mental level after that also body… and now huh i dont want him to have me just for pleasure,you know…
yeah it might be a rebound… just wait a bit more… and you will see… noone knows if they have chanches to get their ex back… but it must hurt even more if u know he is already with some other girl… i believe its killing you
Oh dear you are so lucky he doesnt hVe any other girl after break up! And you guys still have strong connection. You guys might have strong chance to be together. Just keep maintain the lovely new of u!
Yes oh my. Its killing me so much. Especially when someone u loved choose another person who completely opposite of u! Urgh! Why her? i know he is very comfortable with her but he loves cuddling kissing hugging and all those romance chilling. That girl is so boyish and harsh! I have noooo udea how they been dating so well
@aryyan: ja well i was his first girl and the first person he loved and cared for and show that to… slowly but more and more, so he cant just forget about me in a week no freaking way… ohmy… im full of adrenaline knowing we will see eachother today again -.-.-.- i want to, but dont want to asme time… and ya i think i am lucky he doesnt have any other girl… but our friends are telling him, LETS GO GET GIRLS THIS WEEKEND bla bla. im pissed at them , really P I S S E D. pf isntead pf helping me and shiit, they want him to move on asap . …
jah what a harsh situation this is :// they are friends for so long, they know eachother completly good… just tat they started sharing intimacy and so… god, this isnt really the best thing… it might come out really bad for you or maybe even good we cant know… they r dating so well cause the know eachothjers flaws and good things…maybe that girl was just waiting for him to break up with you, so she took her chance of being with him… and she accomplished her mission then i guess… how can they act like this. i dont udnerstand…
i feel the urge to contact him today, goddamn and to ask if we can gop hang out on this sunnny dayyy maaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaan -.-" to go somehewre as friends and have a nice and chilling time… so he remembers how lovely we were togetzher and had fun… he said his bro we had the best times together… but last month it wasnt so amazing…
I know exactly how u feel. Hang in there! Im also soooo want to text him and break the rules but i know he doesnt even care. In fact i just found out that his new gf realized that they are in honeymoon phase but she doesnt care. As long as she happy with her new charming bf which is mine before!
I know i know. My friends Also asked me to move on and said he choose her instead of me. How cruel is that! They even say just forget about him because he has her and he will forget about me! Im soooo sad they seems like they dont understand how i feel. But my other friends sho know about his new gf and have met her before, they laughed so hard and they said “they are in honeymoon stage. Just sit and watch another few months”
Oh my. I cant wait for another months and in not sure about this rebound either.
@aryyan: I wrote a text to him today. But i didnt send it. i wrote that i still has hive card and if i should give it to him next week, or if we two could go out together if thats okay with him… but then i deleted it and let it be…im scared as hell that he would write no just give me the card and thats it…
Ugh that sucks… but after the honeymoon phase is over, you will see how they will continue with their relationship you know…
I hope for our best that he will not just forget about you… it cant be that easy, maybe now while he has another girl to fill up the empty spot that was yours to fill up… I believe its very hard for you… but, give yourself time and he will maybe come around !!
Phewwww thats good you deleted it. How long u have been doing ur nc? Is he texting you or find u when u no around him?
Hurm. Well, im not sure about honeymoon phase. Its been 6 weeks and they seems very happy. Im afraid he will totally forget about me because of her. Maybe he is not bored with her at all. How can he will come around if she took his mind bring him joy ? Sigh
I feel the same. I’ve been working so very hard to get my ex back. And so far most people are saying good things. He’s been snapchatting me everyday pretty much since we broke up. I’ve been praying and working hard to get him back. I don’t think there’s anything else I can do right besides wait, and I’m getting very impatient and part of me wants to give up. I just don’t know what to do while I wait, It’s driving me crazy. I feel that we will get back together sometime, and last night I started feeling that something good was goint to happen to me…I just don’t know what to do right now
Oh dear. You are so lucky at least he gave you respond or you know a bit news about him. Just wait and be patient. Keep improve yourself physically and mentally
Im not sure about mine tho. I dont feel like we r getting back together since he has someone else completely happy for them. Sigh
@aryyan he’s in a rebound with a coworker (and i heard it’s not that great lol, but things like that just don’t work out) he showed all signs that he still loves me. I feel that I have fixed the reasons why we broke up, I just don’t know how to show him. It made it hard for me to NC because he would snapchat me literally everyday. One day he did 6 times. I tried to talk to him, but now he’s doing the push/ pull thing. I trust what my gut says, I’m just getting very impatient. I’ve worked so very hard for this, and I know he still wants me somewhere deep down. I just don’t know what to do now
@aryyan: today is day 10 no contact. and no he doesnt text, he3 doesnt ask anyone how i am… A friend told me that they were hanging out yesterday (he is with the same group at this moment… all of a sudden he is always with them,tho he told me he cant stand being TOO much with them, they are annoying kids who smoke pot lol)… he told me yesterday my ex started talking about me, when he came he was like ; oh you can go banging her now and he said it in a joke,and that now there are enough girls in my village he can bang, including me… he also said that he is not going to be with me anymore…) and that friend said that he looks okay, not sad… hmm and that he started talking about me (nothing in patricular, just that i have things i need to deal with and that his decision is still the same - not gonna be with me anymore…)also i have his card, he said he is gonna come to me to take it, that is not a problem, but he said just not yet… sigh i feel sad honestly devastated and torn into pieces. He didnt contact me still tho its been 10 days… they dont know him the way I do… they dont know he can fake being okay and not sad or like soething is wrong/missing in his life… Should i stop the NC and ask him if he wants to go for a coffee as a friend… idk i feel like i should give up and try to get over him… he told me the day he broke up with me, that i should forget about him… his decision was clear, and still is… I feel like he does still care and love me, but he just doesnt wanna go through what he did already… and he was really drunk yesterday but he didnt really miss me or anything if i look at the fact he didnt text me/call me… sigh. and our same friends dont wanna hang out with me cause i am a breakdown and cant talk anything else than about my ex… they dont call me to come out, if he is around cause it would be awkward (for them more than us i think…) I just cant believe how someone who prefers being alone his whole life can just get over someone who he was with 5 months and the connection we had… WHY WOULD HE START THE CONVERSATION DIRECT ABOUT ME WHEN HE COMES OUT AFTER ALMOST 2 WEEKS… doesnt that mean that he has my in his mind…
idk about it aryyan, i really hope you wont be in a bigger pain that you are now. it seems like they do really enoy eachother company, but it cant be permanent…
@confused girl: it seems like he isnt ready to comletly let go of you.
Today he text me at late night and said “where have u been? Why u didnt reply anything?”
I was really shock. I though he doesnt care about me because he doesnt contact me and he seems very happy with his girlfriend now. But i didnt reply his msg yet. I dont know whats in his mind but i know he still seems happy with her. Thats why i still keep remain silence. Maybe he realized that i dont update anything in social media and dont reply him it must be really weird to him. But im still not fully improve myself. I will text him later with new me. Interesting of me.
Dont text him. U said he was drunk and he seems fine and dont sad and all. Maybe because he has spmeone else but if he moved so fast and seems fine why he drunk? People said happiness is best revenge. Indeed it is. But the most happy people is the saddest people. They so greAt in hiding their feelings because they can do in very short time period. The more fast he rebound, it means the more pain he has to force himself. He seems confused from what i see.
You dont want to look so miserable. There is a lot of activities you can do to make you happy. It takes time i know but its ok. At least u allowing urself to accept happiness willingly, and push the pain without any forcing. You cant hang out with ur friends, thats fine. You can listen to music. Do yoga, play with cats. Anything that for u seems to look little, belive me it will give u a good mood even just a little. We cant force ourselve to be happy so fast unless u have that big ego and immature attitude to show to the world that u r so happy but actually u r not one day u will realized. He is in denial and has soneone else right now, one day, that one finest day that your pain will be his pain so fast and his happiness u will get. Good things will cone for those who wait, work hard, hope and believed. Not just wait
Awwww you are so lucky. He still shows he loves you even broke up and try to snapchat with u everyday. It seems that u have hope tho. I think u just need to do false friendship and improve urself to be new u. U dont have to change all of u. Just be u and better. He will attract to u more because u r not ur old u. U r interesting, positive and fun woman but at the same time u support him and he will feel confortable
@arryan: its good u didnt answer him right away. Idk if i was strong enough not to answer my ex , good job. hopefully after you text him with the improved you, he will realize what he is missing.
well honestly he does not have anyone else… he is by himself alone at home,work i was his FIRST OVE AND GIRLFREND.he told them he is not a relationship person(after we broke up) and he told me before we were together that relationships and love…is not an exiting thing for him and that it wont be… or with that group of people, who are from the same area as we are… they used to drink together just like yesterday…, he didnt drink a lot alcohol while we were together, he wasnt getting totally drunk, yesterday he did.i feel like he is living his life just like before he met me and that its not a problem for him… ya i do, i went out with my old friend yesterday, we were hanging for hours, i had a good time, but bad also… when i play with my cats my heart hurts, cause he was the one who brought them to me he picked them up for me… my friends are telling me to move on that he doesnt want to be with me anymore blah blah… i am trying to get a hold on myelf, and all, but this morning everything broke down again… i am starting to realize he is actually really no longer in my life at the moment… but that friend coming and telling me all that… he unbalanced me hardcore… while he is having fun, and being with our friends i am a mess and missing him… and hoping and believing for the best… and he still doesnt wanna be with me…
well im not really over doing it, just looking to be dressed nice, putting some maskara on my eleyshaes and powder and thats it. usually i was just natural so this small change makes a big difference and its not overdoing it i hope 
or maybe even good we cant know… they r dating so well cause the know eachothjers flaws and good things…maybe that girl was just waiting for him to break up with you, so she took her chance of being with him… and she accomplished her mission then i guess… how can they act like this. i dont udnerstand…