Followed the website’s advice after a rough break up. Didn’t beg, went no contact for about 40 days.
I ran into her on the street with her mom, and I was dressed well, talked to her, and asked if we could be friends. She said yes.
I texted her Monday night (after telling her I’d talk to her Saturday but choosing not to). She seemed keen on talking to me, but I ended the conversation quickly because I had to go, and told her I’d talk to her the next day.
Tuesday night I texted her late at night, asked her how she’d been doing, and she said just okay. I then called her, and we had an hour long conversation. I then told her I forgive her for past mistakes, and want her to forgive me. I admitted to doing some mean things, and she admitted to doing some mean things as well. It wasn’t a hard conversation; felt very natural. She said she could see me as a friend, and asked if she wanted us to be just okay. I said no, I want us to be happy. She said I just don’t want what we had before, and I said me neither. She told me she would talk to me this weekend and is going to ride the subway on Tuesday to come hang out with me.
Does this sound like it’s going to work out?
Thanks everyone!
