ceecee123 - You’re welcome and I’m so happy for you. Sometimes we have to force ourselves to do what’s best for us. Over time you’ll get stronger and be in a better place mentally. You will be happy again:) Take care of yourself…
Thank you so much. I am doing a lot better, I realized I am a lot happier on my own then in a relationship where I was insecure and always mad. Sometimes I am reminded of good moments that make me feel sad but I remind myself that it’s okay to be sad about it and over time I’ll be happy about them. His friend sent me a picture of the girl that my ex is “f*** buddies” with, according to his friends, and I did get extremely angered but I do think that if he truly loved me then he wouldn’t have moved on within a week regardless if the relationship was unhealthy or not. And I don’t think he would be so rude either. His birthday is the 19th, I was thinking of simply saying happy birthday just to be cordial but I’m not sure if I really want to.
@ceecee123 - Everybody has some good memories of a past relationship, but the thing is that they don’t serve any purpose other than to make us sad. Best to stop yourself thinking of them as you move on with your life to get to a happier place. I’m very glad to hear your doing a lot better, but please don’t let things about him upset you. No, don’t say happy birthday. He doesn’t deserve your wishes!
Focus on yourself and your own well-being. Wish you the best:)