Dear Mr. Kevin.
This is my situation: my ex-girlfriend dumped me 3 months ago and of course, I was needy and desperate until I found your website and I started the no contact rule. after 30 days I sent the elephant via messenger, she responded very quickly and I ended the conversation after that immediately by wishing each other the success. I backed off for 5 days, after that I reminded her some of our funny memories, she was neutral, neither cold nor hot. Two days after that I contacted her but she said that she feels nervous when she talks to me and she asked to not talk to her again, she said also that I ruined the relationship and she mentioned that I am contacting her just to get her back but I did not mention that at all. I stayed calm and I switched the conversation to something positive about our future and she accepted that and I ended the conversation. The next day I made a very funny illustration by putting some of our memories in a caricature faces and showing her that I am a new person. She liked it a lot and she laughed many times during the conversation even that she sent me her picture without asking her to do that. This conversation took a little bit more time than the previous one as you instructed on the website. So the rule that I should back off for two days again after I contact her, but the next day she wrote:" please I do not want to speak with each other again" and she suddenly blocked me om the messenger, Whatsapp, and VK. We were together for more than 7 years but we had some problems because we had a long-distance relationship. I know here and I know that she really loves me. My question is: What should I do in this stage? please, I need your experience to deal with this situation. Thanks for your effort.
Do another round of no contact. Honor her request for not wanting to speak.
You need to stay in no contact and let her be the one to initiate conversation. She can see that you’re overall interested in getting the relationship back. She sees your desperation and clearly doesn’t like it. Go no contact, improve yourself, reflect on what you could do better, become a more attractive you. When she misses you, she will reach out and with time, she will definitely think about the positives from your relationship than the negatives. You need to let her feel that she will lose you forever and in the end she needs to be one that pursues you if you ever want to have a real relationship back.