2 years of relationship. Does he want me back after you read the story?

reconciliation
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Hello!
I’m Jess and its not my real name. I’m 19 and in collage. I know I’m young but I wanna be young mom so after college, work for a year of two then settling down to a man.

My boyfriend (well ex now) we’ve been toghter for 2 years and 7 months. We broke up on Sunday, May 27th 2018.

When we were 4 months I liked this one guy (we didn’t do anything, I swear) and my boyfriend found out. We almost broke up but I promised him I’ll never do that again. And that what makes him not fully trusting me.

Then a year later, I liked this one guy again, he was my classmate (we didn’t do anything too! We just talked as a friend) I told this to my bestfriends and my boyfriend found out again and he forbid me to like another guy and forbid me to be friend with my bestfriends. He forgave me and I promised him again.

After that a year later he forbid me to have an instagram account. He said its not good for me because I could stalk my ex etc… But I’m not. So I made second account, he found out and he call it quits.

But I wasn’t giving up. So I went to his house with my little sister and he was angry because I came to his house WITH my little sister. So he asked me to come to his house tomorrow alone. I did and we make up again.

6 months earlier, I’m in college in a new city together with him. We lived together so happy no drama etc, but then he had to move because job thing and he’ll be back next month. And suddenly I liked this guy (he’s my classmate) and so stupid I talked about this with my new bestfriend that my boyfriend sense that she’s a bad influence to me.

He found out about the instagram thing, talked to my bestfriend about mu crush which I didn’t do anything like talk or something. And call it quits.

I know I sound very needy and petty. But I think he’s the one for me. I know that our relationship ends because of me. This is all my fault and I can’t make him happy. I want him so much that it hurts he blocked me in all over social media and my phone number.

He’s kind of guy that if he made a mistakes (well, I’m his mistake he even admit), he will take that as a lesson and never make that mistake.

I’ve tried no contact rule thing but I knew him very well. He hurts and probably not wanting me back.

Please help me. I know I got trust issue oh God I love him so much.

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I am abit confused by your post Jess. Are you pregnant? Planning to be? You said you want to be a young mom. And is he the father of the baby?

To get him back you will need to give him some space from you. You will then have to gain his trust. Read the 5 steps article written by Kevin. Also follow them. They will work perfectly on your situation. It seems like he really loves you. Please learn your lesson on the No Contact period. You must change the liking and almost cheating with other guys. Im sure you wouldn’t like your partner to be liking other girls and letting you know about it. Right now you seem very immature to him. You must know what you want in life. Show him your change and you will get him in a blink of an eye. However if you don’t change and he sees the samething in you. He will leave forever.

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Tho seem to make the same mistakes again and again. Liking guys and then discussing that with people you obviously can’t trust. You need to prove change and definitely
Keep going no contact. It’s only
Been a week and a half since the break up. You can do it