[Zion]

Wow, sounds hot and cold responses you are getting. I think that your doing the right thing with NC. Perhaps you need to take the NC time and maybe do a pro’ and con’ list when you can clear your mind and heart from the hot and cold treatment. After the 30 days you can make the right choice to meet up with her and discuss things.

It’s hard for us (gay) people as I think in our community we have a lot of transient relationships. And often I think we can be brutal to one another. I am sure the same is of heterosexual to a degree.

You need this NC time to work on yourself to determine if it’s the right path for you.

Happy to chat anytime. Going through my own battle myself.

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