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Dara
Thanks so much I hope you are right and I agree I just want it to move faster but I’m impatient because I feel as if when we aren’t talking they are talking. However he did ask me if I was upset with him yesterday because of some tweets his read and I said no and he even said I’m sorry with a sad face. Then called me to hang out but I was working. So I hope we are working toward us and he is not just trying to hang on to me in case him and this new girl he likes doesn’t make it.
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Hi Kevin/Everyone
My ex and I have been broken up for about 6 months now. After the break up we still hung out every day as if nothing had happen and it still felt as if we were together just not with the title and that went on for about 3 months. It all stopped when he came over and saw a guy friend at my house who I have told him I had no interest in at all. It just went down hill because he had an ex who did the same thing but he read text that showed otherwise. Anyways it just felt different and I got upset because I felt like he gave up on us because of him just assuming things. I tried to apply no contact and it lasted for about 3 weeks because the 3rd week he was really persistent in reaching out to me from texts, calls, Facebook messages(btw we aren’t friends on Facebook) Facebook posts and so forth. One day he invited me to the movies and I let my friends in my ear and agreed to go and I have to admit I was acting as if I didn’t care when deep down I just wanted to throw myself on him. The movie “date” was good and we even texted and everything the next few days. Well he is a DJ and he likes this girl who is a singer and that weekend he had two shows in the state she lives in and I heard nothing from him while he was gone but I knew they were going to hang out and I was use to not talking to him when he traveled. Of course when he got back he tried to reach out to me and I hung out with him . What’s funny is he would send me screen shots of Facebook messages from my account and tweets from my twitter and just starting arguments about who I was talking to and how he’s happy that I’m finally happy. So we just stopped talking. The next day he texted me saying he doesn’t want to hate each other but he was hurt and can we work on being friends. I told him we can try and we agreed to meet up that week. That same week the girl he has been talking to came down here to record her album and I felt a certain way that he didn’t tell me and I found out on social media from one of his friends. So I just told him that I will leave them alone and let them be and I will work on what I have going on. He immediately starting calling me and texting me saying why am I acting like that and blah bla blah. Eventually we agreed to be friends and everything was going GREAT until I noticed that he was going thru my texts, pics, call logs and trying to listen in on my calls to see who I was talking to. I just laughed it off and he said it would bother him if I went on a date and didn’t tell him. Hmmm I thought that was weird and also he would talk to this girl whenever he was at my house and I never said anything and I would even leave out the room for them to talk and being a “friend”. One night he went outside to talk on the phone and without thinking I got irritated and told him to pack up his things and leave. He then texted me the other day saying I needed space away from him because I couldn’t deal with him taking a simple phone call alone. I politely replied that since he couldn’t deal with me talking to other people and that’s why he goes thru my phone I understand he needs space away from me and left it at that. We didn’t communicate for two weeks and while in that two weeks he was with this girl he likes for a week because they had shows together. When he came back of course he tried to reach out and I ignored him for a few days. Then I reached out to him and we met up and he hugged me for what seemed like forever and he kept telling me how he missed me and he thought I wasn’t going to ever talk to him again. He even told me how the other girl is interested in someone else and showed me a picture of her and the guy together and that she didn’t tell him because since they have been just friends she didn’t think she had to. However, she doesn’t like that him and I still talk, she tries to change the clothes he wears and that he cant post pics with girls and he seemed a little annoyed. I noticed there is heart by her name and I told him that was cute. I havent talked to him in two days but I am confused on what’s going on. Should I still remain friends with him or should I just move on. I still want to be with him but I’m not sure if he is falling for her of if there is still a chance or not. HELP PLEASE!!!
