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I wish you the best of luck. If you need any more assistance please do not hesitate to ask. When you get your resolution post an update. I would really like to know how things turn out.
Honestly, her blocking communication could mean several things. Of course, when she initially made the decision to block your communication I would imagine she most likely was angry. Also, it shows that she really wants some space, right now. The thing is when she sees that you are respecting her decision, after some time has passed, she may decide to reopen a line of communication with you. At that point, if you decide that it is something you want to pursue, you can begin a new relationship.
As my no contact continues, I have begun questioning whether I would want to try again with my ex. The conclusion that I have come to, is that the old relationship I was in is both done and gone. The only way that I would want to be back with my ex is if we were able to start a new and fresh relationship.
I hope I was able to answer your question.
It is very normal to feel confused. In your post I see you saying that you feel like you can rekindle your relationship. In my mind, your remark sounds very positive. Embrace this hopeful attitude. It is still probably a little early to start thinking about how you will contact this person next. Hopefully, as you give this situation some space these answers will come to you. Also, as time passes, you will gain insight as to whether or not you want to purse this relationship anyway. You may find that you have lost interest in this person by the end of the no contact. On the other hand, with cool collected composure you may become irresistible to her. Ultimately, time will give you the answers you seek.
It looks to me like you are doing exactly what you need to do, give her some space. Ultimately, when you are giving this person space, you are showing her that you respect her decision. Since you are showing her respect, when she thinks about you and the situation it will be more likely she has positive thoughts. Right now, you should probably not pursue her or give up. I think the idea of NC is to focus on yourself. Try to do things that will make you a better person and reward yourself when you accomplish goals. Consider things that you might want to accomplish and start making positive changes. As time passes, if you are making positive changes in your life, when the time comes for you to reconnect with her you should have a good idea of what you need to do. I know this is challenging but hang in there.
