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It was a text and ok i will not contact her for abit. Thank you Patricia for the help and I will let you know how it goes 🙂
So she called me and I fell for the mistake of answering the call I told her that it was best to keep the space between us and she said “It is best because I just hurt people” acting very depressed. I don’t know what to think is this a act for attention or is she truly feeling this way. It was only a 5min call because she had to go off but that is the thing I think she is starting to miss me? because it certainly seems that way.
She was also saying that she cry’s herself to sleep every night.
So I just had a message from my ex’s just saying “hi” I dont know what to do, Should I say something like “Sorry I have not being in contact with you for a while I thought the space would be better for us both.
How are you?”Well, I am from The UK and she is from New Zealand so very far away. We were planning to meet in about a year or two. Yes, I still live with my parents, no neither of us have ever had counseling her parents don’t accept that she does have Depression and my depression is simply because I don’t have a job so as soon as I get one I will be fine.
and another thing what would you recommend me saying to her when I/she gets back in touch. Say about what I am doing now with my life? or follow the NC like “Hey, I just watched x-men apocalypse A. It reminded me of you and how much you love it. It made such a smile on my face”
Thank you for the reply I will take that advice on board and continue looking for work and get in touch with her later, And regarding the problems the issue is mainly the Depression that she has and it is affecting the way I act coursing the arguments. I know it is difficult living with Depression and it is very hard thing to deal with in a relationship because one trigger word as such can start it all off. She also believes that I have depression aswell.
