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Please help me

My boyfriend and I have been together for 4 months, his only 22 and very stubborn, I am also his first girlfriend and I am 27 years old.

The only time we ever get into a fight and start having problems is when I get drunk, he is not a drinker and I am I don’t drink every day but when I do I can pretty much drink half a bottle of vodka straight. Which leads me to fight with him and say very hurtful things to him, such as I’ve done better then you, I can do so much better then you, you’ve got no job, no car I have more then you etc. his reaction in the past was to walk away and he won’t talk to me unless I reach out ( the longest we went with out talking or seeing eachother is 3-4 days.)

This time , he handled it differently, he ripped a birthday card he got for me and I through a promise ring he got me in his face he picked it up and put it in his pocket and refused to give it back.

The next day he sent me this message.

Thank you for all the time we spent together, believing in me, motivate me, and kept pushing me to be a better person.
I have learnt a lot just in 4months that I have been around you with unforgettable memories
Thx for loving me for who am and what I have
Thx for always be there for me anytime when I needed you
Thx for making me laugh
And I know you really loved me, BUT now it has come to an end of everything I felt the same way but you ain’t the type girl that I would live with for the rest of my life, four months it is a long time to study someone and actually even tell if she or he is the right person for you
Well now I have realised you ain’t one and there’s no point of wasting my time or yours on something that is gonna end anytime in the future , TRUST ME with that attitude and behaviour of yours, you need more than a luck to succeed in your life!
I can do sooooo much better, there’s so many fish in the sea.
Delete me in your life and you will be soo dumb if you talk to me again, go find yourself a Man that can actually pull up with your bullshit , good luck on that too.
Am moving on from now and I will never turn back and I hope I don’t miss you coz it will be the biggest turn off ever✌?️✌?✌?

I will drop your watch sometime next week✌️

So I didn’t reply at all I guess you can say I started the NC rule right away.

2 days after he sent that message he blocked me on Facebook( which by the way is set public)…. 3 days after blocking me on Facebook , he blocked me on snapchat.

I have not called or texted him since he sent me that message, it has been a week now.

His friend , sent me a friends request on Facebook , which I didn’t accept( not sure if my ex is trying to snoop but his pride won’t let him show his friend he still cares)’ oh it might be just his friend.

2 days after his friend tried to add me on Facebook , he sends me a snapchat add/follow.

I poste pretty sexy snapchats so I thought, I’ll just accept his friends on there so they can go running to him and show him how happy and hot I am (which my ex talks about all the time whilst describing me he says I look like a celebrity haha whatever that means )

Did I make a mistake by accepting them on snapchat, is the NC rule for his friends as well?? Please help me

P.s I still got all my stuff at my exes house not much but a few items.

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