[Tommys83]

Hi guys. I posted this earlier and I’m sorry it’s quite long but I’ve been following your comments and there’s lots of very good advice.
I would be VERY grateful for any form of feedback or advice from any of you as to how to try and reconnect with my ex….

Hello
I was wondering if any of you lovely people could give me some advice?
I am about to get to about 30 days NC (apart from one email i sent just before xmas which was an email she sent me last christmas telling me how excited she was to be spending christmas with me and how happy her life was)

She has not contacted me and we havent spoke since the 5 december when she deleted me as a freind from facebook and the impression i get is that she really wants to move on. I have seen her profiles on dating sites like POF and zoosk etc saying she is actively looking for a relationship.

I am thinking of carrying on NC untill about 45 days and then i am not sure how to reconnect????
…Some advice says to send a txt something like “reminding her a tv programme we both liked to watch is coming on or asking her where a restaurant we ate at once is located something like that. and other advice is to write a short letter to her to say sorry how things ended but now i am ready to move on and i hope we can be friends??

What is the best thing to do? She is quite a stubborn person and i know she left me because towards the end of our relationship i got into a slump and she realised she could maybe do better. we had been going out for 3 years a living together for 2. Things only started going downhill in the last 4-6months of the relationship.

Any advice would be very much appreciated.
Many Thanks
Tom

[Tommys83]

Hello
I was wondering if any of you lovely people could give me some advice?
I am about to get to about 30 days NC (apart from one email i sent just before xmas which was an email she sent me last christmas telling me how excited she was to be spending christmas with me and how happy her life was)

She has not contacted me and we havent spoke since the 5 december when she deleted me as a freind from facebook and the impression i get is that she really wants to move on. I have seen her profiles on dating sites like POF and zoosk etc saying she is actively looking for a relationship.

I am thinking of carrying on NC untill about 45 days and then i am not sure how to reconnect????
…Some advice says to send a txt something like “reminding her a tv programme we both liked to watch is coming on or asking her where a restaurant we ate at once is located something like that. and other advice is to write a short letter to her to say sorry how things ended but now i am ready to move on and i hope we can be friends??

What is the best thing to do? She is quite a stubborn person and i know she left me because towards the end of our relationship i got into a slump and she realised she could maybe do better. we had been going out for 3 years a living together for 2. Things only started going downhill in the last 4-6months of the relationship.

Any advice would be very much appreciated.
Many Thanks
Tom

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