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I mean wont she be more happy if i would not contact her already? I mean she told me she does not love me anymore. Why would she look forward to anything that involves me?
Im not sure how NC could work on making someone who does not love you anymore miss you.
Am i missing some points?
I think so. I really am not sure. Maybe.
So after i sent her that text maybe after 2 hours she just responded if i wanted the brand new camera that she bought. That i can get it from her now and i can pay her next year. Not sure why she brought that up and dis not even aay anything about my apologies. Women. I really dont understand them sometimes.
So i sent her a message already. I said i was sorry and i understand why she was acting that way towards me. Then i told her to take care.
You think NC will work for me? I think it will just being her more peace than making her miss me.
Thanks for the response. So shall I text her and apologize? Or leave it as it is? I did not send her any message after that.
How do I know NC would still work when from the start even before the break- up she does not love me anymore?
She even talked about the future but the future would be us living separate lives. That’s what she said. Man this is really killing me.
I’m beginning to think it’s hopeless. With the way she talks. That’s why I need someone who might still shed some light to this. Maybe I’m just missing some points.
Thank you. And I’m sorry for the long post.
The last thing I texted her was: “I’m really hurt right now, I just really want to love you better, to take care of you much better, but I just can’t because you don’t love me anymore. I did not text anything after that. She did not respond either.
At first I denied but finally admitted I was still jealous and was checking on her account. She just laughed over it. Did not get angry or anything. Until today, I got restless. I asked her if it was the guy she was chatting with whenever I see the both online, and asked her if she already has feelings for him.
This was her reply (she suddenly became cold after figuring out about last night and today):
“It’s clear what I told you the last time, that the feeling is gone. So please, don’t force yourself and don’t let anybody else get involved in this situation. And no, I don’t share anything special with that guy.”
I asked her if for her she feels like the feeling is really gone, that if she feels like it is never coming back. She said “Sorry, but yes.”
During those 12 days of break- up.
We’ve been on limit contact, which is kind of new to her because before I was not like this. I showed her I was “okay”, but would not text her, so basically she was the one texting me first. She would text and laugh over her own mistakes (I think somehow she knows I find her funny whenever she sings the lyrics wrong), and would tell me that I look like the fat guy dancing.
Everything was I THINK going fine, small hints here and there, until I screwed up today. We were together yesterday and I found out that she was exchanging messages with a guy that I was jealous over (although she’s not into him and he’s not into her, I was just jealous over that guy) at whatsapp. I did not want to admit that I was hurt because she was with me and she was busy over the phone with that guy (They were talking about work), so when I got home I texted her: “Thanks for the company, my chest feels a little heavy.” She asked me why, and I lied that maybe it was the cough that I’ve been having for the past 2 weeks. To my surprise she replied: “Get some rest, go to sleep, and don’t stalk my whatsapp account. hahaha.”
She figured out I was checking if they were both online at the same time. I did not tell her anything that that was the one I was trying to find out, but somehow, and I don’t know how, she knew, she felt– I don’t know!
@krista27: I think I screwed up. Here’s a re- post. Hope you’ll be patient enough to read through my story.I need help translating again. I feel like poop right now. I’m so depressed.
It’s been exactly 12 days since we broke up. We’ve been together for 7 years. But during the last few weeks before she broke up with me, I noticed she was becoming colder, she would not hold my hand, or even kiss me.
We’ve been through constant fights, big and small during those times.
Fast forward a bit, she broke up with me because she said that she doesn’t love me anymore. That the feeling completely disappeared because our relationship was just about fights, which made her fed up and eventually lost all feelings for me.
She told me that if I wanted to change, I should do it for myself. She even told me that it’s okay if I find someone new and hoped that it would be okay for me if she finds someone new as well.
How would you weigh this situation guys? Specially gals. I do not want to believe that she is really over me. But from the way she talks. I think she really is.
The last thing I texted her was: “I’m really hurt right now, I just really want to love you better, to take care of you much better, but I just can’t because you don’t love me anymore. I did not text anything after that. She did not respond either.
I felt like I really hit rock bottom during that time. I felt like she really does not want me in my life. That’s why I need someone to help me translate these gestures of her. I really hope someone would be patient enough to read my stories and help me through this one.
Thank you in advance. I just feel so depressed right now.
At first I denied but finally admitted I was still jealous and was checking on her account. She just laughed over it. Did not get angry or anything. Until today, I got restless. I asked her if it was the guy she was chatting with whenever I see the both online, and asked her if she already has feelings for him.
This was her reply (she suddenly became cold after figuring out about last night and today):
“It’s clear what I told you the last time, that the feeling is gone. So please, don’t force yourself and don’t let anybody else get involved in this situation. And no, I don’t share anything special with that guy.”
I asked her if for her she feels like the feeling is really gone, that if she feels like it is never coming back. She said “Sorry, but yes.”
During those 12 days of break- up.
We’ve been on limit contact, which is kind of new to her because before I was not like this. I showed her I was “okay”, but would not text her, so basically she was the one texting me first. She would text and laugh over her own mistakes (I think somehow she knows I find her funny whenever she sings the lyrics wrong), and would tell me that I look like the fat guy dancing.
Everything was I THINK going fine, small hints here and there, until I screwed up today. We were together yesterday and I found out that she was exchanging messages with a guy that I was jealous over (although she’s not into him and he’s not into her, I was just jealous over that guy) at whatsapp. I did not want to admit that I was hurt because she was with me and she was busy over the phone with that guy (They were talking about work), so when I got home I texted her: “Thanks for the company, my chest feels a little heavy.” She asked me why, and I lied that maybe it was the cough that I’ve been having for the past 2 weeks. To my surprise she replied: “Get some rest, go to sleep, and don’t stalk my whatsapp account. hahaha.”
She figured out I was checking if they were both online at the same time. I did not tell her anything that that was the one I was trying to find out, but somehow, and I don’t know how, she knew, she felt– I don’t know!
Hey guys. My topic in not in any way connected to a rebound but the comments of the people here seem very helpful. That’s why I would like to seek help as well. Because now, I really feel like dying.
It’s been exactly 12 days since we broke up. We’ve been together for 7 years. But during the last few weeks before she broke up with me, I noticed she was becoming colder, she would not hold my hand, or even kiss me.
We’ve been through constant fights, big and small during those times.
Fast forward a bit, she broke up with me because she said that she doesn’t love me anymore. That the feeling completely disappeared because our relationship was just about fights, which made her fed up and eventually lost all feelings for me.
She told me that if I wanted to change, I should do it for myself. She even told me that it’s okay if I find someone new and hoped that it would be okay for me if she finds someone new as well.
How would you weigh this situation guys? Specially gals. I do not want to believe that she is really over me. But from the way she talks. I think she really is.
