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So Im on day 5 now – I know that she spent the night at the guys house and have a hunch they had sex or will do it soon – they’ve been flirting for about a month now at her work and via text (I saw one sample which I was told was harmless).
I’m not going to lie – it was a very rough and sleepless night – the worst I’ve had since we broke up because this is the first time she’s been with him at his place. My day at work was awful – I stared at my computer screens and compulsively checked social media for any signs of life.
I’m trying to be better this evening – the important thing is me reaching out to her is out of the question so I can keep my NC going strong.
I wonder why I want her back – even after she’s at a minimum cheated on me emotionally. This is what I’m trying to figure out – after reading through this site I realize I was addicted to the relationship and I need to get away from that. There’s someone out there who will treat me well and love me as much as I love them
I’m glad I read your post as I feel like my situation is similar in that my ex started talking to a guy before our breakup but I can’t get her to admit to it – and at this moment it probably doesn’t matter anymore. My breakup is more recent and I’ve relapsed on NC a few times – but your posts and many others on here are finally starting to hit home that I must make it work if I want to get better.
I’m also similar in that I’m dreading spring and summer as that was the happiest moments we shared together, especially on vacation.
I hope the bad days become less frequent – I haven’t been through a breakup like this in a long time so I can’t remember how long it takes to feel better. And I’m older now so it hurts a lot more over my college years.
