[sunshinegirl]

Thanks Hani –
I was a mess when I said that.. But now I am more rational, which I hope I could keep this way… I’ll just follow NC and do not push him at all 🙂 Thanks for sharing your experiences and good luck!!!!

Hi Joe –
Yeah I just replied his email this morning, I guess I will count my NC from tomorrow 🙂 I’m originally from China 🙂 Just came to the states last August for my master program. I’ll graduate next year and I will do my best to get a job 🙂
And went to read your post and think you’re on the right track! I believe doing NC is really good for you cause I’m starting to realize the point of NC is YOU not the other one.

And Hi everyone –
So I replied his email this morning when I was very rational, I think that’s a nice email:
“I know this must be a hard decision for you but I completely understand. I understand that right now you need time and space to deal with your stress, work, sleep, and time with family, and that is the most important thing for you right now.

I will stay strong, study hard, and keep hanging out with my friends and making memories.

Thank you very much and you can always talk to me when you’re not that busy. You’ll always have my support and you’ll be in my daily prayers.”

Short and not needy (my thought tho). 🙂 Hopefully this will make him forget some of the needy version of me. How do you guys think?

And I’m feeling better now! I have this in my heart:”Every improvement is one step closer to him!” “The happier I am, the closer I am to him; the more miserable I am, the farther I am away from him!” Hope the thoughts help 🙂

[sunshinegirl]

Joe–
you’re awesome that you’re aiming for 90 NC period! How are you so determined? I’m so afraid he would lose feelings for me..

[sunshinegirl]

Hey hani,

Thanks for commenting! I even thought about going to him without telling him if I know he would refuse 🙁 Sometimes I just want to take the advantage that I know his address.. But I guess that would be horrible..

Just hope NC will increase my chances to get back with him..

[sunshinegirl]

Thanks a.z., welsey and Joe!!!
I’m replying him email right now… I feel it’s so hard so day “you made the right decision” because I feel like we will be over for good….

[sunshinegirl]

I think NC rule still applies and I know it’s hard..

I think your situation is a little bit similar to mine… My boyfriend and I was in a 8 month long distance relationship and we just broke up because he’s too stressed I guess.. if you’re interested, could you have a look at my post?

May seem impossible but I want to try my best to get back with him

I want him back so much…

[sunshinegirl]

Thanks LA and a.z., thanks so much for the encouragement and advice! I should have tried more to communicate with him better, maybe this wouldn’t happen…

I’ll stay NC for sure! It’s just my friends told me it may be better if I replied the break-up email by saying “You made the right decision. I completely understand your need time to work on your own problem. You always have my support”, something like that.

Should I do this?

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thanks a.z.!

We met last year. He visited me about every three weeks and I visited him in my summer break.

Although we are in this stage, he hasn’t deleted the relationship status on Facebook.. Should I do that?

[sunshinegirl]

Hey I feel like we’re in the similar situation that we still love each other but there’s too much stress and things in life going on.

And I think you’re doing great!!!

Just my ex-boyfriend and I were actually in the long distance relationship.. If you’re interested, take a look at my post 🙂

May seem impossible but I want to try my best to get back with him

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Awwww thank you Nikkibears!
I’m so happy that you can think of her less now! Do you still think a lot about getting her back?

[sunshinegirl]

NC is rough… 18 days already so good for you!

From a girl’s perspective, I broke up with one of my exs before and we got back after half a year because when he showed up again, wow he was like a totally new person! Yeah so I thought making changes is definitely helping 🙂

Also, could you take a look at my post? Really needs guys’ perspective here…

May seem impossible but I want to try my best to get back with him

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