[steveb]

Thanks, I know that makes sense but its just so hard. I’ve always strictly been a one woman man: I don’t want to start dating again yet in case she wants to come back. I’ll give it 30 days then look to move on

[steveb]

No reply from her. The worst thing for me is I don’t know where i stand! Does she really need time to think or has she dumped me. Here’s a text she sent a few months ago
Thank you for a lovely time in Copenhagen :)) I love you to bits .. Up to the celing down to the floor round the world and much much more!!!!❤️❤️❤️❤️❤️❤️xxxxxxx

Wtf happened?

[steveb]

I sent her a text saying I loved her, wanted her but didn’t need her, that I would give her time, thanked her for a great 5 months, hope she would decide she wants to continue the relationship but that I feared the worst

[steveb]

Again, not sure if it’s an official break up. Two weeks ago she was telling me that she loved me, then wham…. she needs time alone to think. Could be that she has dumped me but doesn’t want to hurt me, or she wants to keep me as an option or she does want time to think. Who knows?

How would you suggest I contact her, call, text? I was thinking a text, something light like suggested in the 5 steps.

[steveb]

Not sure how long they were together, until he phoned one day (and she ignored the call telling me he was an ex she didn’t want to talk to) I didn’t even know about him.

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