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A.Z, Dara, David,
Thank you so much you!! I am going to continue with NC.
Yesterday was a good day, I had a very positive outlook; I went out with old friends and had a great time.
I woke up this morning thinking about and missing her. I don’t know why, but it seems like the mornings are the toughest times for me. It’s like I get startled awake thinking of her.
Anyway….. I feel better now (a little better). Weekends are particularly tough.. I wonder what she’s doing, who’s she going out with..etc. I hate it…. I don’t want to think those things but I do. I often get tempted to drive by her place just to see if she’s home…. I know that’s not healthy but a part of me feels relieved when I see that shes home. (I’m crazy huh??!?).
Well.. some good news is, I had one of the girls that I’ve recently met (exchanged numbers with and have been texting) ask me if I had anything going on tonight.. sounds like I could possibly have a date tonight.
I sometimes wonder if its a good idea, I feel like I’ll put too much emotion quickly into the situation, almost to replace the ex. Any thoughts?
A.Z, Dara, david,
On another note, I was wondering about your backgrounds. How old are you guys? Where are you from? Did you get your exes back? (I know Dara’s story but not the others) A.Z (no disrespect) but are you male or female? LOL!!Hope to hear back from you guys soon!!
Joe
Oh… I know what you mean… I was off the edge yesterday… Dara totally saved me…
I think I can beat deleted pics… She changed her number after a few days.. I went nuts.. granted we’ve had many break up fights…Maybe she’s really trying to move on this time.. Kinda hurts, but I’m hanging
K.W, How long are you doing NC for?
Don’t go on his Facebook or instagram. Deactivate yours if you have to…
Dara,
How long has it been since you and your ex split?
A.Z., Edward, Daniel, Steve, Festival David, Rihanna,
Please read my posts… I’d love your opinion… Thanks!
Dara, Thank you!! reading your last message stopped me from going to her house yesterday. I was literally outside her complex, then I read your message and went home. I guess I was thinking too much about what she was thinking about me. What I realized is, who cares what shes thinking.. What matters is what I think.
So anyway thanks Dara!! I’ll continue with NC
Where’s Kevin BTW?? I could use some of his input on my whole situation..
I feel like I screwed up bad!!! She probably thinks I’m stalking her online… I wanna contact her…Why??… I wanna defend myself… I’ll tell her that I accept the breakup but apologize for accessing the page? I’m on day 8 of NC….. and Im already at deaths door….WHAT DO I DO??
Should I contact her or not?
Dara/Kevin/Everyone,
HELP!!! I screwed up!!!!
I went on her social media page with a bogus account I created a long time ago.
What happened is, that it sent her an email saying this person viewed your page.
The reason I know, is because it sent me an email saying that her account viewed
my page.
I changed the name on the profile to something other Joe But I’m
sure that it sent the email to her as soon as I viewed her page… With the name
Joe. I changed the name on my profile but I made the name change after I viewed
her page. So I’m sure it sent an email saying “Joe viewed your page”Its probably obvious, cause it said Joe viewed your page and then when
she viewed the profile, it all of a sudden had a different name The only reason I
knew all of it happened, is because it sent me an email saying she viewed my
page.I feel like I screwed up bad!!! She probably thinks I’m stalking her online… I wanna contact her…Why??… I wanna defend myself… I’ll tell her that I accept the breakup but apologize for accessing the page? I’m on day 8 of NC….. and Im already at deaths door….WHAT DO I DO??
Dara,
Did you and your ex get back together?
All,
I will continue NC for 2-3 months; But I can’t deny, that inside of me I’m hoping she will call me sooner than that.
I have been actively chatting with other women (maybe even too much); everywhere I go, I’m constantly checking out women and even get a few numbers… IS THAT BAD?? Its like I’m going extreme on getting in touch with new women…. I don’t know if I should be doing that or not… I guess I don’t like to be alone.
Feedback?
Thanks for the replies!! They are really helpful.
Wow…Dara… 2-3 months of NC is rough; but I’ll try my best.
I was really an “A”hole the last day we saw each other. While I don’t agree with how she treated me; I still wanna apologize (maybe its the addiction to her that Kevin’s always talking about).
So I guess my question is, should I do NC until she contacts me? Or do I do it for a set amount of time? I plan on reading relationship rewind soon, but right now I don’t know how to get out of Death’s Door.
One more question, (since shes changed her numbers) How do I go about making contact in the future? I have an email address… and unofficially I have her new home number.. Which by the way, I called again (her old home number) and now the disconnect recording NO longer says the new number.. Like she called it or someone call it.. realizing that it gave the new number out.
I cant even focus at work!! its like I need a rehab or something!!!
