Forum Replies Created
-
Posts
-
I feel so guilty by acting needy in front of him and asking hin about relationship
I asked him about the problems he had durong relationship..i shouldnt have done that on that day!!
I just ruined my chances ..
but i am doing this no contact to move on..i have accepted the fact that he is not coming back to me anymore because i acted needyYeah scattered tracks !!!!!
right now after watching that movie i seriously realise that i should get someone who will go crazy with me..who will not want all positives ….he will enjoy my negative things too..if a person seriously loves someone they dont just leave you for silly reasons !!
So i just realises that if he is not coming back..then there is definately someone out there who will love me to the end.. not like my ex who can leave after stupid fights and fall out of love with..i mean seriously is this love?? If i can still love him and accept and forget all the wrongs he did…then why cant he…and if he cant..then he is really not the right oneYaa but you guys have motivated me so much 🙂 seriously !!
But i have one doubt this time am i not suppose to initiate contact??Guys have u watched this movie – my sassy girl
If not then plz watch this movie kprean version..its awsome trust me 😀I love you guys so much moonbunny and scattered tracks !!!! Thankyu so much i just loved your view…yesterday after talking to my ex i got demotivated. I immidiately wanted the results…even body takes time to build. So relationship will definately take time to build..my ex was scared that fights will happen again if we get together !!! He wants me in his life.. i have to move on…and see if he comes back to me….that means that he really loved me…if he doesnt then i will reserve my feelings for someone who will deserve it !!!! He has hurt me so much but rejecting me 2 times…now i have to move on …..i have to live my life bd this time i am not going to beg him to get commited to me !!
If he loves me truly he will come …. !!!! guys are dying to get comiited to me after they heard that i am single again !! And he is rejecting me !!I talked to him about relationship…!!he said he is not ready for any kind of relationship right now..he wants to talk to me but not about relationship..whenever i try to remind him of good memories he builds up his defences….thats why became irritated and asked him what was stopping him ..he said he is not interested in relationship anymore !! I dont know how can he stop loving me all of a sudden !!
We were together for 5 years..he made me feel like i wasted my time and emotions on someone who is not strong enough to handle these emotions..if i am a mess he is also the same..thr difference is he wants to hide everything from himself..and i am suffering to handle my emotions…
I have tried so much..now i just dont know what to do !! I feel like giving up..15 days of no contact his answer was same..2months of nc..his answer was same..i dont know why the hell i am trying so much when he cant even think about meNothing..i was texting him trying to build attration through memories..he was very weird so i freaked out
I asked him straight about realtionship to which he obviously said no 🙁Yeah…i seriously think that i became restles too soon..!! I wanted results very fast so i ruined everything…
I should take it slow !!I am so glad to have you guys here seriously
you guys have helped me so much..when i act crazyy….thankyu so much..i realised that i still need to love myself…i will ….and i dont know about him
But i will be happy without him if he can
Then y cant i!!
We will be so happy one day…i dont know if i will get him back or not but i hope you guys do get your ex back !!
And the love you have for yourself
