[shaunnoonan]

I read WAY to much into things…. In the past I was always negative and felt second best but this time I’m actually really optimistic. This could come from changing the way I feel about myself…. My partner is in a classic rebound, when she sees mutual friends she asks if she has heard from me she still has pics of us on her instagram and reply’s and likes my Facebook status,,,, I’m just hoping time will not erode my optimism or let her fall in love with the rebound. I don’t want to make your thread about me but the other day I put a status on fb saying how I had improved my mental health and was starting achieve goals…. Goals that I had set when we broke up she liked it, messaged me saying it was good I was feeling good about myself and getting help. Then she unliked because a girl she hates commented on it and she posted a status saying she cant wait to get home from her holiday to see her new man friend….. I see that as a reaction to my post fuelled by jealously over the other girls comment….How’s that for reading into things 🙂

I will say optimism is better than pessimism however I am scared if this break up is permanent and the optimism disappears I may crash….

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