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I guess its just hard for me to digest because I could never see obstacles that I wouldnt climb for her. So I figure from her end it would be the same
Also, What do I do if she tries to contact me from another persons phone I dont recognize and I answer it
So your saying, NC until she reaches out to me with obvious feelings of wanting to reconcile and repair everything the right way? Then tell her I would be willing to move with her and continue everything from there?
Thanks. Great to hear it coming from the opposite side, from the opposite perspective. But how long ago were those texts? And when did you start to regret everything?
Great insight. And once again thanks for helping me.
Well, a good example to go with is this.
My father was an incredible athlete. He could have been a legend. There are literally bags and bags of articles and magazine clippings on him from the 70s and 80s. For some reason or another, he ended up being a laborer and never went as far as he should have, even though he had it.
My wonder is this. Could I also have all the talent and potential for what I do and still not reach where I should. Then I would really be kicking my own a** for eternity. Not attaining it, and still losing her. And your right, right about now I feel like I would give away everything just to prove it to her and show her, but who knows how resentful I would be eventually.
On the flipside, I know that no dreams are achieved without the utmost hardwork and determination.
Another question I have. She messaged me last night when I was asleep telling me it was a great show and she had a good time back home with her friends. I answered this morning and told her I was glad she had a good time and that I missed her text cause I was exhausted from work and performing at my show. Never got a reply. Now is the time to implement NC?
Also, since we are still linked online, and we have a lot of mutual friends, do I just carry on like normal or go out of my way to show that I can do just as good if not better by myself for the time being.
Thanks. I hear that. I think that that is more or less what happened before. But is the NC so strict I should avoid every greeting, text, msg, everything? What if she is feeling me out and I mess it up by appearing cold? We text alot, and in the past it has been easier for her to tell me things via text.
