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Started putting everything away and like an idiot started reading the I love you cards from her. MAN! Glutton for punishment. lol. So how does this work exactly? I can keep posting to this thread with my NC / General updates and you all see them ?

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Sounds good that your at peace with everything. Love is definitely a psychological struggle

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the ip problem?

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Just a little bugged out that she will track my ip address to see what Im upto and know what Im doing lol

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Thats the impression I get and Im grateful I found the site

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So what was the outcome of your NC and your outlook on everything?

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Thanks team. Its damn near impossible to find people that genuinely care about easing a stranger through a terrible situation

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I guess the next step is to start NC, put all of her things that remind me of her away until whenever the final result comes about, and avoid her anniversary gifts that should be in the mail anyday now

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Interesting. Well Im happy you found peace in the situation.

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Interesting. And you are looking to reconcile or after having that time to yourself your over it?

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if you dont mind me asking, what was the outcome after the NC for you

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Absence makes the heart grow fonder. Well done

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by play it cool and play it short, you mean after the phone call, erase all communication all over again? Im sorry if I keep asking questions that seem like theyve obviously been answered, Im just trying to be prepared for any and all possible scenarios so I can handle this perfectly

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No worries, sometimes harsh is what you need. Love will make you do crazy things, that lead to feeling embarrassed lol. I guess Im also stuck with the conditioning that “anything you love is worth fighting for”. Im so used to having it pounded in my head that you have to prove it to her by going leaps and bounds with the “aint too proud to beg” mentality. Yet luckily, I havent gotten that far. Seems like NC is the way to go, Im just scared of “out of sight out of mind”. But I guess if its meant to be and I did my job as trying to be the best man she ever had, then it will be impossible for me to ever fully be “out of mind”

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What about handling the call from another number if I happen to answer it?

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