[SaraiD]

Thank you for responding.
Yes you are right we never sat down and talked the issues through. We would have the arguement, then have a brief talk and he would say let’s just draw a line under it and move on. But I never resolved it in my head. Which lead to a build up of negative feelings inside me.
Also I know that 2 weeks wasn’t long enough for me to start contact, we both feel hurt and that was far too soon for either of us to have a clear head.
He told me not to contact him and that but he also told me that we weren’t getting back together and too much has happened.
Do men who say this ever want to start again.
I can’t see that he will ever change his mind.
I know that I can’t make any contact and the most important thing is to heal myself.

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