[Gingerone]

@ty10 I know, I plan on playing it cool. If she comes she comes if not so be it! But she’s opening up and the fact that she’s even telling me these things and not keeping it too her self is a positive.

I know if we spent time together things would work in my favor. But I need her to agree to it on her turms. Not to pressure her into it. But it’s all a positive in my eyes.

Also she must have wanted me to recive that picture, it must have brought some good feelings back to her. For her to txt then facebook msg me to check if I recived it.

Time will only tell how it all works out but in the mean time,I can contine to grow and improve ready to show her I’m a changed man.

Thanks for your support guys ?

[Gingerone]

@jburg32 cheers. I’m ok with it, like I said its down to her now. I know I need to build trust again but I can’t do that if she won’t meet me.
Hopefully with everything that’s been said she might want to do that.
I think it might be best to leave it bey till she replys, that way I’m not putting any pressure and it will be here decision. I just hope it’s the right one. Only time will tell. I’ll keep u all informed. Thanks everyone

[Gingerone]

Sorry that’s long but didn’t want to miss details out lol

[Gingerone]

So here’s an update on my situation guys

I was in a bad reception area yesterday but managed to send out the txt.

She replied and even went on Facebook to msg me asking if I was reviving her txts.

Here txt read – did u get my picture msg. Ye was ok not as good as last year.

So when I had better signal coverage I replied with – which picture msg? The one you sent on sat?

Her reply – no I was at such & such place this morning sent u a pic. Gutted you didn’t get it.

So I txt back saying how much I liked that place.

It went quiet then for a bit so I decided to ask her if her and her mum were ok (last time we met she said they had a small falling out)

To which she replied – ye everything s good now thanks. It felt weird in the festival without u, and walking round such & such place I felt sad ?

So I thought here’s my chance to ask.

So I calmly said.

There’s an interesting thing on in the park this Sunday,few blues bands playing. I’m gona go down ggrab a few beers chill and have a listen. Your more than welcome to join me if u like.

To which she replied – thanks I’ll have a think about it and let u know.

So I said cool I’m going down anyway

So ye bit of a weird day. I Now know she misses me. The balls in here court now, just see how it Fos from here now

So what do u all think?

[Gingerone]

Wow chill man, no need for that, the girls going through a hard time. Your attitude doesn’t help. Everyone’s here to voice there opinion no need for the attitude.

@oshi ignore him, hope your ok!

[Gingerone]

@oshi, I’m sorry to hear but you must put yourself first. Once your happy nothing else matters. If you feel things arnt right go back to no contact. Get your exams out of the way and try to enjoy yourself. From what you’ve told me on here, maybe it’s for the best. Sorry for sounding harsh. You seem like a great girl and if he can’t see that his loss.

[Gingerone]

@solidturd even

[Gingerone]

@soildturd why how would you go about it!

[Gingerone]

Well today’s the day, I’ll txt her later and see how I get on. But there’s something telling me I won’t get the answer I’m expecting. Not feeling good about it all

[Gingerone]

Tommorow at some point. I’m a bit worried, I know I shouldn’t be because like u said its make or break time, I need to ask for my own sanity. I’m thinking the worse but if she says no that’s it I’m going back to no contact till she reaches out to me!

[Gingerone]

No I’m waiting till tommorow, she’s away at a festival at the moment.

[Gingerone]

Hi guys I’m really nervous about txt tomorrow, I know it’s daft as I want to know if she’s for real. How would be the best way to go about it?

[Gingerone]

@ty10 I hope so!

@oshi think of what u said, if it’s out of character then your probebly thinking too much into it. We all do it! Listen to @ty10 he’s right

@jburg32 you have a point sometimes it’s make or break and your right. The fear of rejection is there!

[Gingerone]

@oshi remember what you told me on fri, don’t jump to conclusions. Try and relax I know it’s easier said than done. But it could well be nothing, like u said u know him well and if he’s not the type of guy to do this then he probebly still ain’t. Were all prone to overthinking. You need to think what’s best for u! Try and focus on yourself!

[Gingerone]

Our break up was the strangest one ive ever had. We broke up once where she moved out, and within hrs she was back crying saying she wanted to make a go of it.

We stayed together and things were getting better till I got a new job and was away for a while. I was under some stress and to be fair I was hard to be around even though she tried her best (after time apart I can now see this)

We broke up but still were living together for a few weeks were things were not very diffrent only thing I slept on the couch untill she asked me back into the bed. She continued to spoon me. It was like we never broke up. Then she moved out and I did no contact till she contacted me over bills. I kept no contact going then sent my letter. To which I had no reply. We met up to sort bills and she was amazed at how I was looking (lost 3 stone) been working out and eating healthy. We would txt every now and again. Then contact was more frequent. Then we met up again. Both times we’ve met up she has this smile on her face, we chat and laugh like old times. Then she started txting me that she was thinking of me dreaming of me etc and now where at this point here now. So there it is in short @ty10 confusing from the start lol

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