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Hi Ashley,
Sorry about your breakup! My ex and I didn’t end on bad terms so after my 30 days NC I called him up and asked if we could meet up for coffee and catch up. I knew he wouldn’t have a problem with it. A few days after that we went to an amusement park and we’ve been hanging out weekly since then. It’s mostly me(about 85% of the time) at this stage starting communication so I don’t know if that makes a difference. He is still dating someone but has never mentioned her to me. I have no idea why. Even though we’re hanging out, since he’s been saying he’s happy and made the right decision, I’m having trouble trying to figure out how to move things towards a romantic relationship. Was your breakup amicable? Do you think he won’t respond to your request to reconnect?Hi Dara,
Thanks for the reply but I think you misunderstood the part of him dating. I found out about her a few days after the breakup like I explained a while back. I freaked out when he ended things and looked at his email, he never told me himself. He has NEVER mentioned her to me. When it’s come up in conversation he has denied multiple times that he’s dating anyone. We hang out weekly and have plans to hang out this weekend. It’s my birthday. We always have a good time but I’m struggling with moving things from the “false friendship” to a romantic one since he makes statements like saying he’s happy now. Oh and by the way, we’re no longer sleeping together. It was a one time thing when we saw each other again since the physical attraction is still there for both of us. Does any of this make a difference?Hello everyone I know my post came in late last night but I would really like some advise from different points of view. I’m at a Crossroads and would like advise soon. Should I give it time and continue to fight for my ex or is it time to give up? Thanks in advanced for any help you can give me.
