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Ugh sounds like he had this chick all along in some way in his life. Only he knows for how long though. And he threw a bunch of excuses at you so he could exit the relationship. It’s not that he ran to her because you are leaving a void-because if that were true, it be someone from his hometown. Someone that lived close by to fill his time, go on dates, someone to have sex with, etc. A guy truly in love wouldn’t let distance get in the way..and he’d step up and enter a committed relationship. But your ex decided to choose another girl instead of investing. Only he knows why. It seems like this girl was trying to get her claws into him for a while before your relationship ended and my guess is they formed an emotional connection and eventually he figured out he couldn’t let her go. Do you think she knew about you?
Madie, sounds like he placed you in the friendzone. I agree with teresaa about not contacting him until he contacts you. Since it sounds like you made major mistakes immediately after the breakup, you need to show him that you have learned from this experience and are no longer the very irritating/annoying ex. Wait until he makes contact then you will know whether he really wants to talk with you. Him initiating conversations is very different from him responding to messages from you.
I know what he is doing. It sounds like your ex is using his ex to move on from you. You can not know the extent of their relationship unless you read every txt and listen to every call. They sound much closer than you thought. He isnt gonna give a damn about what coworkers/mutual friends think. So what if they crucify him and blah blah the rest that ya said? I guarantee he will not care. Why do you want a guy that places his ex’s feelings over yours? If ex is working there, it shows he didnt give a damn about your feelings even if friends and board pple tell you other delusional crap.
