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It’s been 17 days no contact with my ex and it’s been even longer since I’ve seen her except for last Wednesday when I bumped into her at school. I don’t feel needy and I don’t clingy anymore at all but I feel like the right thing to do is to jus go the full 30 days or 45 days and really see where I am. So far I’ve accepted that she’s in a new relationship and I’ve accepted that she’s doing stuff with him.. I guess my real question is what is the appropriate time to wait and should I just wait for her to contact me or should my first thing line of contact be through a letter that I can send?
Danmurphy919
Ok but when should I say to her when it is the appropriate time to email her even tho she has a new bf I think u might kno already bout thatWe’ll it’s been 16 no contact except for that little run in at college but I haven’t had the urge to text/call/email/social media her at all.i still think about her every day but I don’t let my thoughts later my thinking..I jus remember when I bumped in to her at school even tho she has a new bf now and everything that she was almost blushing when she saw me and I was to and the way we were staring in to each other’s eyes and smiling was unforgettable. Do you think that moment made her day seeing me? And when do u think she will try to contact me?
Where is the video even Thompson suggested that I watch if I was interested in bringing down my ex defense mechanism in her subconcious mind. The link he sent was invalid
Danmurphy919 14 days today we ran into each other yesterday and had a subtle convo like 3 minutes too then I said I had to go
During the no contact rule would it be bad if I wrote my ex a letter about me seeing her yesterday?
Alright so today at school I saw my ex I approached her and had a very subtle convo wit her when she saw me she could not stop smiling and I kept the convo very short as we’ll.. Am In the right direction towards getting my ex back
Would it be to much if I wrote my ex a letter describing today’s event that happened and could I please get some feedback on my last post? Please.. It would really mean a lot to me.
OMG alright so I’m at school this Morning college by the way and I seen my ex walking to the computer lab..i was engaged in an conversation and I jus turned my head and there she was walking down the hallway.its like nothing else matter and me and her locked eyes and waved at each other.i approached her and kept it very subtle .. I jus asked questions like how r u? Did u get your classes? How’s work? And I notice she kept smiling at me and then I said we’ll I have to go it was very nice seeing you. An do left. So what’s next for me and am headed in the right direction towards getting my ex back
OMG alright so I’m at school this Morning college by the way and I seen my ex walking to the computer lab..i was engaged in an conversation and I jus turned my head and there she was walking down the hallway.its like nothing else matter and me and her locked eyes and waved at each other.i approached her and kept it very subtle .. I jus asked questions like how r u? Did u get your classes? How’s work? And I notice she kept smiling at me and then I said we’ll I have to go it was very nice seeing you. An do left. So what’s next for me and am headed in the right direction towards getting my ex back
After no contact is over how do I break that awkwardness between me and her? Because honestly I don’t text her because I don’t have anything to say to her
And what If she never comes around to saying nothing to me during the no contact rule and what if after the 30 days is over with I still here nothing from her? I really miss her a lot and even tho I haven’t seen her at the college we both go to it’s kinda making me that much more anxious to want to see her..I haven’t texted her or even called her even tho I been kinda hesistant but not really.
