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We’ll it’s been a while since I been on here and I feel fine about my ex now. I’m in a happy relationship with a very beautiful young lady I got my first job at target and I’m passing all of my classes.. God has truely worked on my heart and my mind and I jus feel like a more mature and better person since the break up I don’t have a back to text my ex Or email her but every random blue moon I might say hello but that’s it I’m actually really happy I’m not in that situation anymore and I refuse to go back..other than that no hard feelings and I jus feel really blessed and thankful for what I have on my plate.
Hey I know it’s been awhile but I’ve been doing great I feel great and I feel truly blessed I really do…I jus have a quick question. So I was on twitter tweeting about my football team today and I REtweeted a tweet about my football team and like 30 minutes later my ex who doesn’t get on twitter often Retweets my tweet and it shows up on my news feed..I kno that this couldn’t have been a coincidence becuz she doesn’t really like football much so I waited about a hour and I jus emailed her and said hey and she tell me that it’s pretty random that I emailed her almost like she didn’t kno what she did so to speak. What do you think of this and is she tryna tell me something.is it possible that she misses me although she is in a relationship with her rebound guy? Please comment jus want some advice on this please
Things are going good danmurphy919 no
Complaints we talk every day and I’m happy with my situation.Things are going good danmurphy919 no
Complaints we talk every day and I’m happy with my situationMonday morning I bumped into my ex and i asked if it was ok if I walked her to her next class she had 20 minutes before her next class start so we had time to sit and talk and stuff.while we were talking I kept it simple asking how her classes were and how’s work and stuff and then I told her about my classes and alittle bit about my job as we’ll.i complemented her on her new hairstyle and I noticed she had got her eyebrows done. She also noticed my new hairstyle and that I got my ears pierced as we’ll and then I cracked alittle joke saying tht I was my upper body was tatted. She then like tryed to get me to raise my shirt up and show her and I kept sayin na and then she told me like don’t make jump on you and that’s how we started back out small talk. Today I emailed her Goodmorning and I asked how she was feeling and I asked if I could meet up with her before class and she said sure. I again complemented her on flower reaf she was wearing around her head and told her she looked really beautiful and she smiled and said thankyou then she cracked a joke saying that she was from the island knowing damn we’ll she’s not lol. We again were talking and laughing and I think she has the impression that i have become my normal self again and not trying to come on to her in any way that’s disrespectful towards her and her relationship. But we still jus had a good little fun time with eachother laughing and joking with eachother becuz that’s how we acted wen we use to be together we were jus real playful with each other. When I walked her to class she have me a hug and before she walked in class I pretended that there was something on her face and I started picking little imaginary things from her cheek and she smiled at me and said to me YOU JUS WANTED TO TOUCH MY CHEEK. Of course I said no it was something there but I feel like it went we’ll between us.BTW WE ARE BOTHE IN COLLEGE AND ATTEND THE SAME SCHOOL. PLEASE SOMEBODY LEAVE FEEDBACK OR COMMENTS THANKS FOR LISTENING
No I am not I jus want to be on good terms wit my ex without any bad memeories or awkwardness between us I’ve accepted that she has a boyfriend do I still love her yes but I can’t worry about that so I am dating someone if me and my ex get back together in the future then hey it is what it is but until then I’m dating someone who I have a good interest in @Danmurphy919
Ok so yesterday I met up with her and we talked for a good 15-20 minutes..she started pointing out a few flaws and I jus told her I’m not here for that I’m here to jus hold a conversation with u and see how u been…she did tell me her bf was picking her up from school today but I was still appreciative of the time she gave me. She said that she didn’t kno about us caution talking since she’s in a relationship becuz she don’t want him to to think that we tryna get back together and I actually met the guy he’s really a sensitive dude and he’s very insecure about what she may be doing..he’s constantly pickin her up from Skool dropping her off and it jus seems like the guy whole life is her. For some odd reason when I did talk to him he told me he had been n a situation similar to me and my ex and his old gf cheated on him wit her ex and they got back together..and he doesn’t want that to happen again.. It feels like she’s tryna prove to him that she’s not gonna go back to me and that he had nothing to worry about but deep down I feel that he’s very insecure..but to get back on point me and my ex talked and it actually had a few cheap laughs in there and a few smiles and we ended the convo on a good note a complemented her and I could see her smiling but at the same time putting her defense up against me so she wouldn’t feel some type of way and I jus was very cool about the whole thing tbh…please comment and give me some pointers and advice..I want to kno if I’m in the right direction
WELL IM DATING SOMEONE AND IM HAPPY. DO YOU THINK I WILL HAVE TO BE THE ONE TO TEXT HER IF SHE DOESNT TEXT ME FIRST. My NC DEADLINE IS WEDNESDAY AND I STILL HAVENT CALLED OR TEXT HER IN ALMOST 30 days.WHAT SHOULD I SAY WHEN I FIRST TEXT OR CALL HER? SHOULD I TEXT HER OR CALL HER? AND BY THE WAY WE DO GO TO THE SAME COLLEGE AND WOULD IT BE BETTER IF I JUS ASKED HER TO MEET ME SOMEWHERE ON CAMPUS IT SOMTHEING?
Hey so I jus saw my ex walk past me we’ll I had my head down reading and when I looked up she walking wit one of her male friends so to speak. And when I looked up she was like giggling wit a slight smerk and gave me the ole wave and continued walking. I felt an extreme rush but then I felt like she felt awkward seeing me right there. It’s been 23 days no contact almost 30 days and I feel confident about my feelings towards her I do. How do I break the awkwardness between me and her?and I most definately feel like I’m ready to maybe send her an email or a text. Should I? Pmease responds I need some advice
I feel very confident about my feelings towards my ex and I am ok with the fact that she is in a new relationship. I thought about jus sending her a goodnight message but I wanted some feedback before I did.i am currently in NC with her but I feel better about the whole situation. I kno that there is even more room for improvement becuz it’s endless.im not getting an urge to text her I jus thought that maybe I would send her a text saying hey I jus wanted to say goodnight and maybe a kiss emoticon? Jk about the emoticon maybe jus a goodnight message? It is 20 days of no contact for me and I feel great tbh not jus now. My overalls feeling as a whole
I feel very confident about my feelings towards my ex and I am ok with the fact that she is in a new relationship. I thought about jus sending her a goodnight message but I wanted some feedback before I did.i am currently in NC with her but I feel better about the whole situation. I kno that there is even more room for improvement becuz it’s endless.im not getting an urge to text her I jus thought that maybe I would send her a text saying hey I jus wanted to say goodnight and maybe a kiss emoticon? Jk about the emoticon maybe jus a goodnight message? It is day 19 of no contact for me and I feel great tbh not jus now. My overalls feeling as a whole
Danmurphy919
Thanks for the advice and tael I might even go 45 days jus to be sure but I will definately be strong about.. You’ve been a great help and I appreciate you. I’ll get back to you soon. Take care
Danmurphy919
I would say
i understand and i respect the fact that you are seeing someone and I’m not trying to get in the middle of you and your newly found love. I will continue to give u your space and I appreciate you being honest with me. Have a good day Jenae.
That’s how I would respond to that hypothetical situation/question Danmurphy919
