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Although he dumped you
I’d say he still wants you and likes you
He must be finding it very difficult that the girl he lost his virginity to has now been abused
Maybe he thinks you’re to blame
I’m not sure really
But I’d maybe just keep with no contact
Or just say if you want to fix things then let’s talkI contacted my ex by post
Just sent her a postcard I’d got her and said I was fine with the break up
Told her we needed space
Wished her well
Told her I’ve made some good changes in myself
I’m probably at 30 days around now
She text me saying thanks for the post card that she liked it
Since then we’ve spoken everyday day but only small chats and it’s been upbeat and funny
She’s even tried flirting with me
I’ve then ended it by saying I’m off out etc
I’m just trying to play it cool and see how it goes
But like me I wish I met this guy also
I wanted to take my anger out on him but I think she was a fool more
I’m not sure if she did cheat but I know if it was me doing what she done she’d of had a lot more to say about it
I believe in time your girlfriend will realise herself how much she fucked up
I think it takes time for them to see this new guy isn’t right for them
Maybe feels good at the time because they know it’s wrong etc
I had a girl chase me in work before and fell for it
I thought she loved me but we lasted 6 months
She had a boyfriend and came onto me etc
I look back now and see she was on a rebound with me
I thought she loved us but I think she may of just been confused and used me to get out her shit relationshipSimilar thing happened to me, girlfriend got a new job and these single guys were hitting on her
Usually she’d tell me and she didn’t and I found out from someone else this guy was firing in about her
It caused a big argument between us because she played it down and took this other guys side over mines
I love her and she loves me she said but I just think you don’t treat someone you love like that
I think your girlfriends fucked up big time and I’d stick out the 30 days
You deserve so much better than that
And to her work mate he’s a snake by the sounds of itSee after they’ve had the letter and replied saying thanks
Should you wait a few days after that just to remind them of a happy time and just say how are you?I’d put the foot down and just say you need some space just now to get your head right if she doesn’t want to sort things
Just say I’ll contact you for the bills and I’d still send a present to her kid but maybe send it by mail or get someone to drop it off
