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Hey Kellyn it’s good to hear from you. I know right it’s crazy to see how many people go through the hard times and how people deal with it. I don’t usually come to the website anymore but i do when I feel down sometimes.
Well idk about you saying if it didn’t work in the beginning it won’t work again. It will but it should be both ways. I’m sorry that conversation isn’t getting better for you but I’m really happy for how far you’ve come.
From my side, I haven’t talk to her since last month. As you know I did the NC and when I tried to reach her she got mad which was understandable because I ignored her couple of times when she messaged me and after couple of days I send her again and this time she was furious she was so mad that she told me to move on. She was like I wish you well and will always hope you do better in life but please stop. She was clearly upset about my silence so I haven’t messaged her after that because I want her to calm down a little bit. I’m fixing to send her message again in future and hopefully by that time she won’t be that mad. We will see, I still love this person but I’m not a shit show or loosing my sleep over anymore.
Now this makes me feel happy and hopeful, my relationship didn’t ended badly either. There was some issues after the breakup but things kinda went well and then it again went downhill because of my stupidity but this does give me lot of hope. Thank you for sharing.
Thank you, do you really think that’s too much. I’m just letting her know that I had a thought of her which brought a smile on my face.
Hey thank you so much that was really nice of you. I hope she does. I have a quick questions maybe you can help me go through it.
If your ex tries to approach you and all you want is to be friend with him , what will it takes for you to change your mindset towards him from friend to special guy ??( sorry if its too personal, just trying to get girls perspective )
I am about to text her this Friday nothing about our relationship or past just simple. I had thought of you and it put a smile on my face. I hope you’re doing well. Just something in that manner. I hope it goes well 🙂
yeah i am loosing it. I am so tired, i just want to have one day where i don’t have to think or feel miserable. I can’t believe even after all this time i miss her so much. I keep myself busy with work and go to workout everyday but every fucking second i think of her. I am so tired, my mind is so tired i can’t focus on anything.
I am not gonna loose the hope or give up. I might just walk away but not without fighting or trying i am still gonna try. Maybe one day enough will be enough.
Thank You for your help. I hope everything is going at your end.
Hey that is so great i am so happy for you and it was pleasure to help form my side.
Things been quiet in my end, well i started the NC since Christmas we haven’t talk properly since then and we did share few text here and there but nothing significant and its been more than 2 weeks since we have talk. She did message me on New Years day and once last week which i both ignored idk if i did the right thing because all she wanted was just friendship and i couldn’t do that. I am planning to wait till this Friday and start a conversation i am worried if she might just ignore me like i did her but i am keeping my hopes high. I just need some luck on my side and need her to miss me and re consider the relationship during this NC.
Anyway i am so happy for you 🙂 good for you
Oh really then let it be, let him come to you. I know it sucks but you did try to start the conversation there’s nothing else you can do.
I haven’t got a response either,sucks so much and to see her online on Facebook and know that she’s ingnoring me it hurts but I still have a stupid feeling for her so I am just gonna be hopeful
Oh really I’m sorry, did you message him again ?? If not then it’s okay to just start the conversation. It feels bad but when we want and wanna be with someone we have to do some action.
Well I send her the message again, I know I suck I just couldn’t and I send it to her. I haven’t got the response from her either I saw her online in the Facebook and what not but oh well when you love someone there is no need to play bullshit game so I’m not even mad at myself for sending her message
Yeah I know she’s worth it that’s why I’m still not giving up but idk what to do. I miss her at the same time I’m upset because she’s okay with not talking or anything. I know I’m expecting too much but it just hurts
Happy New Year Kelly.
Yeah patience is the big thing, its gonna take time. I am not gonna ask her, i will wait till she text me. I want her to realize that i can live without her. I feel like she don’t appreciate my presence so i will let her appreciate my absence. I will send her text in couple of days if i don’t hear anything from her probably Monday or Tuesday. I am hoping that she will send me text before that but if not then i wont beat myself up for it. I really don’t know if i am doing the right thing or not but i think it will either make her realize that i am not gonna be there all the time or it might just be the end of it which just by sound of it scare the crap out of me and i do miss the shit out of her….
No i don’t think he is mad, he is probably taking time to respond text because he didn’t hear anything from you. I am so happy for you, just take it slowly and meet him often with enough break and see the changes in him. If you think he mature and changes his bad habits then bring up about getting back together if not then you know its time to move on…..
yeah it was one of the best moments of my life, it was romantic. Yeah i need to be patient but it sucks!!!!…we still haven’t talk. Man i was hoping she will text me but it sure don’t look like she will, i am also gonna wait she knows what i feel for her and what she mean to me so i will just wait. I had a plan to ask her out today, i was planning this for a week but never thought we will come to this place so i wont even ask her. Oh man i had wished so many things and planned so many things to do with her in New Years eve but oh well i will just keep it to myself.
That’s great I’m happy for you. Don’t overthink just go with the flow and vibes. Don’t expect too much out of it, take it slow. Give it a couple of days before you meet him again make him think about how nice it was to see you.
I think he miss you too and was probably trying to impress you so don’t overthink. Hang out more often but with a certain time off. See if he actually changed the way he was the stuff that lead to break up.
Couple of weeks ago we went for movie after our graduation it was a late show. We went to watch loving and since it was cold and late the theater was empty there were only 2 couples in the whole movie theater and the best part was we both fall asleep on each other and it felt so good. I thought maybe there is something but after that we are to this point where we don’t even talk. We haven’t spoken since Tuesday I was hoping maybe she will contact me but she haven’t. Idk what to do should I text her, I don’t want it show that I’m weak but hell I miss her. Idk how to approach I still wanna ask her if she will like to do something for New Years eve but we don’t even talk. Sometimes I wanna do the NC and not to talk to her and most of the time I miss her and wanna talk to her all the time. Ugh idk what the hell to do.
Yeah I guess you’re right. I’m just a friend so I should stop acting like her boyfriend. I’m just gonna stay quiet till i hear from her hopefully sooner rather than later but I am just gonna wait. I will let her have her space and maybe who knows she might miss me and reconsider everything again.
Good luck to you today
Thank you I will do my best to be her friend but I will let her know my feelings when I do. I need patience but I’m really bad at it 🙁 hopefully I will have some I want her in my life and that’s the only way I can. So I stoped texting her since yesterday morning, should I initiate the conversation or should I just wait one more day and if she don’t then contact her. I use to send her good morning text but I didn’t since yesterday and I am thinking about not sending her tomorrow morning either. What you think is it a good idea to let her be by herself or should I at least send her the morning text ??
Umm I don’t think it’s a great idea to visit his place at night. I think no matter what you should stay away from any sort of physical contact no kiss or anything of that matter. I still think meeting up in his place at night sounds weird but who knows he might open up to you so it might turn out great. I wish you all the best of luck.
