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@letty
I’ve been exercising a lot and got some new clothes. I wanna look and feel awesome when I hopefully see my ex so they are impressed and want to give it another shot!
@letty
I know. It’s hard.
But have faith in yourself.
I’ve been going through the same thing, waiting for my ex to message me.
But in the meantime I’ve been working on loving myself and looking at what makes me a good person that they would be a fool not to come back to.
Try to find the good things about yourself and write them down. Then trust that it’s true and even if they don’t come back, you’re a great person.
Easier said than done, I know, but do it for yourself so you love yourself!
@letty
This is a tough one.
I think this might be a case where you really do need to stop replying. No matter what. Let him see what life is like without you. It will be hard and scary, but if you don’t i feel he may continue toying with your emotions.
It really sounds like you are doing the right thing–as hard as it may be!
I feel the same way. My ex texted me for the first time since NC yesterday and I was ecstatic. But I had to keep “cool” and I did a friendly and light reply.
AFterwards, I was so worried, overanalyzing if I sent the right thing or not. But everyone’s been saying, just let it sit. Her reaching out, letting me know she’s thinking about me is a great sign.
Of course my mind wanders. I have no idea what that means for sure. Just gotta keep being patient. I’m 2 weeks into no contact, and she initiated the first contact so that’s awesome.
I’ll keep working on myself and finding the value in myself and believe I’m a worthy person of getting back with!!
