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I am going through the same struggle. Currently on the 11th day of NC and kind of broke it today when i had the extreme urge to call her. I cut the call as soon as i made it but it rang.
Just like you, i made some mistakes which made her drift away from me and now i want her back real bad. All i think about is her. And to make the matters worse, she is in a rebound relationship with someone else. So i have lost all hope and just hoping this agony ends soon and i move on.
I am on my 11th day of NC today and i dropped all her belongings at my apt in front of her door yesterday. It was extremely difficult but i had to do it. Today i was missing her voice so much that i called her. After the 1st ring, i cut the call and now i feel so stupid. I then texted her just saying that i dropped off all your belongings yesterday and thank you for all the memories. Goodbye. She didn’t respond at all.
It’s so heartbreaking to see such coldness from the person you love.
The day otherwise has been ok. Slow but ok after i tried calling her.
I wish this agony ends soon.
Today is my 8th day of NC. So many thoughts cross my mind each day. About her, her rebound and the possibility that I’ve lost her forever. Gosh it’s so hard to move on! I wish I could just reverse the time and never ever let her go in the first place.
Ryan I hope man that that’s likely to be a rebound.I hope their current relation disintegrates because I don’t see any hope right now. I just hope I didn’t fuck it up too bad so that she hates me. I don’t know how long I should do this NC but I am planning on doing it at least for 45 days. I am on my 7th day so it’s a long journey ahead. Tomorrow onwards should be better because I am moving in with two girls and meeting new people will help me a lot.
Hey Ryan, do you think I should text my ex’s mom as well? She liked me and I was thinking of doing that even before I read this text. You know just that I deeply care about her and I am sorry about what happened. I don’t know if that’s a good idea or not just seeking your opinion!
@ryan Congratulations buddy! Looks like you have got your ex back. I am happy for you. The situation for me today was rough. Real rough. All that was in my mind was just to call her and hear her beautiful voice but only i know how i stopped myself. I am going to return all her belongings at my place on Tuesday. I hope that doesn’t count as breaking NC. I just hope situation normalizes for me because this trauma of a break up is just too much to handle for me right now. Feeling so crushed!
I also broke up with my gf on 6th feb and she started seeing a guy immediately. It’s my 6th day of NC and it’s just killing me. Everytime today i could just think about her face and her voice. Still hard to believe she isn’t in my life anymore.
I hope my case turns out to be like ryan’s case. I can’t bear this distance.
She told me to keep the gifts as she is keeping mine which of course were really expensive.lol. I told her I don’t want to be reminded of her in my apt hence I am returning that as well.
I’m going to return all her possessions this coming Tuesday! All her clothes, her makeup kit or her gifts. I was also thinking of just including a card with it saying thank you for the memories. Do you all think it would be breaking the NC rule? Or should I just return her stuff and not include the card?
Yes, you are very right. I’ve actually realized my mistakes and I know this relationship failed mostly due to my lack of interest. Now I want one chance at redemption and she is gone. I don’t even know how effective this NC is going to be. But it’s surely more effective than me pleading to her to take me back hence now there’s no going back on this NC. But it is so damn tough to not think about her or give up the urge to call her.
No. He messaged me on Facebook. I was talking to my ex gf and he said I need to stop talking to her or else he will report me to the law enforcement agencies. The odd thing though is my gf was replying to me all this time although with low frequency.
I don’t even know what are the chances of her new relationship ending. I always feel that I goofed up so bad that the new one will work for her. Don’t know what to say! Her bf threatened me to cops if I contact her and said he loves her very much when he met him barely 3 weeks ago.
I am on the 6th day of my NC and it’s killing me. Just makes me miss her so much while she is happy with her new boyfriend.
This is torture!
As I said, yesterday, at times of the day I am going to miss my ex very much. That’s that time of the day for me. Waking up and not having her besides me is making me sad. It’s good that I am already at work. I usually feel better in the evenings. It’s the mornings and noon which kills me.
