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Nice and honest way of contact. Good job.

For starters, stop contacting him and start the no contact rule as well. Stay away from him for 30 days and then send him a message. If he doesn’t respond, then he is still doing no contact. Give him another 15 days and then try contacting him again. If he still doesn’t respond, then you can either try again after 15 days or try to move on (my advice will be to move on, but I have a feeling you won’t take it).

Source: https://exbackpermanently.com/get-your-ex-back-when-he-wont-talk-to-you/

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My ex didn’t comfort me as extremely as yours but I understand. It’s a sickening feeling when you think back to those nice words, like you are 100% safe and accepted. Then some things happen and they are gone. They are totally different persons. I fear we will never find out the exact reason why they broke up. And that is one of the worst feelings.

Rationally, what would we gain if we knew why they broke up? I think not very much. In my case I know some reasons, but she never gave a real chance to defend and explain myself. In your case if he tells you, you want to defend yourself. But they chose to not give us a chance at defending ourselves. And that’s the point: We can be totally right…they just don’t care anymore.

I’m sorry for this sad post.

[Nightly]

I feel your pain.

According to https://exbackpermanently.com/sneaky-signs-your-ex-still-loves-you-even-if-they-say-they-dont/ there is still a chance.

Hate is not the opposite of love, indifference is. If an ex shows any type of negative emotions for you (including anger and hatred), it’s because they are hurt. It’s because they had expectations that you didn’t meet. It’s because they are an emotional mess because of you.
Just because someone says they hate you, doesn’t really mean they don’t love you.

But the truth is, they are only hurt because they love you. You broke their expectations because they have expectations from you. And the reason they are an emotional mess is because they still have feelings for you.

Think about it, why would someone spend so much time and energy into hating you or being angry at you? They broke up with you. Wouldn’t it be easier to just forget about you and move on? The reason they say they have these negative emotions you is because they still have feelings for you. They just don’t want those feelings to be there, so they are confusing those feelings to be hatred or anger.

I suggest you to immediately start no contact. Reasons for this can be found at the frontpage.

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