[Needhelp123]

In our mind, we make this idea that if we tell them the right things and make them see what they did wrong, they will realise that it wasn’t just our fault and will take us back.
Sadly that’s not how it works. If u tell a guy what u feel and what he did wrong, he will feel like you are trying to trick him into going back in a relationship with u.
Even tho they want that, they will never do it when they feel like it’s not their choice.

It’s a bit stupid when u think about it, or even childish.
I think that’s how their brain work haha

Anyway the whole idea of NC is to give them time to forget about the reason you guys broke up, give him time to think and for him to get the feeling that it’s him who wants to get back together.

[Needhelp123]

Yes I am the same girl haha
And yea I already got him back ones, plus the reason for our breakup then isn’t the same as the one now.. so I hope he knows that if I did it ones.. I can do it again?

I dont know.. I like to think that if people really love you, they will come back.
SO even tho u rejected him back then, maybe it’s his anger talking?

Just like my ex, he needed 3 months to calm down and forget about everything that had happened when we broke up back then.
Guys have a hard time too.. he told me once that guys don’t talk about their emotions like girls do so when they are going through a breakup it takes everything to get over it.. because they don’t allow others to help them.

Like u told me, stay positive and work on yourself. The rest is upto him. (:

[Needhelp123]

A few months ago, my ex and I broke up because I was addicted to a online chat.. and he didn’t like it cuz guys were giving me attention and tbh it just wasn’t healthy..

I begged him, and did everything what I shouldn’t have done, when I was ready to give up.. he came back. It took 3 months to get him back.

U still have a chance, even tho it seems like u don’t have a chance after what happened.
Concentrate on yourself for now, he will do his part. (;

[Needhelp123]

The same happend to me tbh.. he was busy, I got tired of it and started an unnecessary fight and he couldn’t handle it.. (also LDR)

The thing is, we broke up before.. for 2 months and I got him back then.. so maybe, just maybe I ll get him back this time too.

I have started NC a few days ago.. and it’s hard, but if that’s the only thing we can do.. so be it.

Just stay positive and hope for the best.
I don’t think anyone who really loved u can forget about you in a few days… I don’t think that’s possible.

Good luck!

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