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I feel like in the last two months he was trying to move on with me around. And there was a girl who flirted with him and she was kind of a bad girl and she was one of the reasons we argued about. I think he even used her as a rebound when I was around. And that why he is so calm and distant right now. He couldn’t make it one day without me for 10 years but it’s almost two months and all he says to everyone is that this relationship is over
Hey Daniel
How are you doing? I got some upsetting news today. I think my ex has moved on already. Remember when I told you it was his birthday and I didn’t text him cause of the NC?? We’ll my brother( who was friends with him and who does not live here) texted him without me knowing.He said that I donno what happened with you too, and frankly I am a bit upset with you but you were once my friend and happy birthday. And my ex replied that I love you so much man but let’s leave it at that and let it be over with a good memory.
I was all whaaaaaaaat? What part of it was a good memory??? You talked to my brother 5 months ago, told him to convince me to get on board with the marriage. You got engaged to me then disappeared without even talkin to my family or explaining yourself. You just gave some lame excuse to everyone including me, his own family and our friends about how it’s for my sake and you did it for me?I feel like he has moved on during the last 2 months of our friendship. Cause he was so destroyed and upset back then and later he told his mom that I felt that way cause I was trying to accept the fact that we don’t work( which is a ridiculous excuse cause if we don’t work how come we lasted 10 years without anything bad?)
I just donno if he’s a jerk?or it’s that gig thing or what? Please help me guys
Daniel
Thank you for responding so fast. The thing is I know he’s trying to move on and I know that’s the reason he’s on NC too. Last time we talked,about 45 days ago, he said that there’s no way for us to get back cause he felt that everything is ruined cause of this pause and no one in my family will treat him life before. I know he still loves me but he has gotten so childish the last month before we broke up. Actually that was his new behavior that caused all the fights and arguments. He was nothing like the person I knew 10 years, during the last two months. So I know he’s trying to move on but I’m hoping he won’t be able to. Plus he keeps saying to everyone who tries to talk him out of his decision that he made the decision for my sake!!!!!!!
How long do you think I should stay on NC before I contact him? And what should I say?Hey guys
I have a question. I’ve been with my ex for 10 years and we got engaged 5 months ago and we broke up it’s been almost two months. I’m on NC but looks like he is too. It’s been a month. Is it a bad sign that he hasn’t text or call me yet? He still insists on his decision even his family and our friends couldn’t talked him out of it. The reason he said for the break up was that we fight a lot. Which is true but not entirely. He said to everyone that we are not each other’s person. And he even told me that he will never ever gonna comeback to this horrible relationship. Of course our relationship was not horrible but the best. But he’s convinced that we are not good together.
Anyway he hasn’t contact me in annnny ways. Yesterday(his bd which I didn’t text him cause of the NC),after a month of NC he even told a friend who didn’t know about our break up that our relationship is done. To me it looks like he hasn’t got cold feted about the break up and he is really trying to move on.
You should know that during these years we’ve never been broken up even for one day cause he always said that if a relationship stay broken up more than a week or two, then you should never get back. Considering the time we’ve been apart now, I don’t have hope at all. His mom told me he comes back home after work and then to the gym and then straight back home. Means he’s alone and it not the gig issu. He’s trying to move on and I donno what to do? Any advice guys?
