[Mj]

Same with me. My HEAD knows to stick to NC but my heart says otherwise. Everything reminds me of her and I keep dreaming of her too.

[Mj]

@divjun I guess that’s why would should go through NC to see things clearer.

[Mj]

The thing is that I’m meeting her and our mutual friends tomorrow. Thought it would be a good time to show her the changes I’ve made.

[Mj]

maybe you could call back and ask if it was an emergency. If not, you could tell him that you want to have your own space and resume NC

[Mj]

@divjun how should i deal with my ex being in rebound?

[Mj]

@ryan6611 how did you get to the point where you and your ex on a daily basis? Right now my ex seems to be in a rebound (or about to be in one).

[Mj]

I would reply just to be polite. But dont get too personal. I assume you are still friends with her? You google relationship rewind step 3 and read the pdf for free. There’s a sample on how you could reply.

[Mj]

It seems there’s still a chance for you. I guess both of you should go into NC. As Kevin said the point of NC is to change yourself and re-evaluate. If you still think that she is the one after NC then go ahead and try get her back.

[Mj]

Hey, I’ve recently been through the exact same situation.

“I love you, but im not in love with you anymore” probably means that she still cares for you but she just wants to let the relationship go. My ex said the same thing. We’re friends now and it was sort of a mutual breakup. I guess you could follow the relationship rewind to become friends with her after NC and see how it goes?

[Mj]

I always tell myself that my life will go on as it is, with or without my ex, and that my ex should not determine how my life should play out. It’s just the thought that she’s moving on with someone new that hurts me every time.

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