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Every day gets better buddy I promise you. Hang in there and time will go by. Don’t ever stop loving. If you do that then she wins. Try writing. I am not a writer by any means but one early morning I couldn’t sleep and of course crying my eyes out; I picked up a pen and just started writing out my feelings. More a letter to her but I didn’t send it. I actually ended up writing everytime i felt empty inside and on the day of my 3 month of no contact I built a fire outside and burnt everything I wrote. Listened to my music which of course I got a playlist of music I listen now for my every mood type and I tell you what I felt a relief when I woke up the next day. I am not 100% but I feel so much better. Whatever you do don’t give up!
I meant isn’t going to work. Whatever answer he gives you is not going to be an answer you want to hear. Its going to bring you nothing but pain. Stay no contact.
I think it is a great letter. Now burn it. You will feel alot better. No matter what you say in a letter is going to work. I suggest stay nc till he contacts you. Work on yourself and soon all these emotions will subside. And if you do a surprise meeting with him is only going to piss him off more. Bad idea. Do not contact him. You will only feel worse. Hope this helps
No contact is not just about not contacting your ex but also staying out of social networks and “reliving” old emails. My suggestion to you is to delete your app. and erase any emails you have of her. It sucks I know trust me. I am in 3 months of no contact with my ex but I feel a lot better. You need to understand that it is about you now and not your ex. Yes she may call you but she may not. This is about you “finding yourself” and once you start realizing that you can live without this person is when no contact actually works. By the time she does contact you; you will be focused on something or someone else that it wont matter. Hope this helps.
