[man from finland]

well we are going to see each other on this week sunday to watch movie or just play games and she has been talking about to do yoga with me some time in future 🙂 i just hope not to get ill on flu because i have been in places where people had it..

[man from finland]

But have you thinked this way he see your picture and updates when he likes and dont get chance yearn you because you are fb friends? because people usually yearn somebody who they cant see or hear specially those one who they liked/loved once..

[man from finland]

I personally blocked my ex from facebook because there you can see things ex posts and ex could see my posts on the wall etc..because fb is kinda place where you see every friend post even on cellphone..so how you could get over somebody if you see his/hers posts everyday?

[man from finland]

I know the feeling you have/had myself too me and my ex gf brokeup after 3 years relationship and she wanted to be friends after breakup and after sometime i started act needy because i still had feelings for her and felt she was only one for me so i acted desperately towards her what pushed her more and more away..so after some time i cut all the contact myself and started live on my own life what took some time but i got over it and started think her less and less everyday…so mate you can get over it too it just takes time..

But life is full on surprises because after 7 months total NC and living my own life my ex gf contacted me via email and she sayed she was thinking me for a while before contacting me, we have now talked few times on steam,and text app and she has comed to my place few times allready and leave when she gets tired.

So enjoy your life and think positively and world is your 🙂

[man from finland]

Thanks for advices “if” i got it correct 😀 But when somebody breaks up with you, you lose some trust with that person and when we brokeup last year i felt cheated because she gived up fighting for our relationship and i was fighting for it myself..

She was at my place again yesterday (friday) after her work and after she had her hair done at barber shop she comed right after it to my place and what made it interesting it was hers birthday too that day and she wanted spend time with me on that day..

she comed and ringed me door bell and i opened up and she comed in and again she comed my place with bicycle dunno how far and i tough she used car because she was so fast at my place after she send me a message that she is coming what i asked because i wasnt sure if i was at home right time.

We talked a lot more than last time and little more personal stuff,we hugged many times and kissed one time, she got more emotial when i gived her my phone number and seemed allmoust burst in the tears and we hugged again.. i told her that i needed to see and feel how it feels to me and how things goes between us before i give her my phone number. I dunno about romantic feelings towards her yet more like similiar caring feeling. like you care person you see important in your life.

We talked kinda honestly about many stuff and stuff has not gone very well me too she asked me few things and i gived her honest answers and we talked little about past that she dont got nothing to apologize anymore because we are talked about it and its in the past and i told her that if she feels like it that she just wanna talk with me she can call me and i will answer if i can and during our talk tv was on because there was some program she wanted to see but each time we talked she put voice on tv mute to hear what i say to her.

Again she was at my place until she got tired and i understand it and say to her that its ok if we see some time and she leaves early even after short visit because she is tired. She is going to see psychologist at next week and was little scared about that because she dont know can she open up in there, so i sayed to her that she should write down a list of thing she wants to talk during weekend and it seemed to be good idea.

Dunno how things will go, she has apparently been through some hard stuff in her life after our breakup and so wrong men, because she wasnt accustomed to that somebody cares for her more than a how can i say it sex object and gived her hugs and it seems im only person that she can open up and be herself because our past and i know her.
I havent asked much about other men she has been seeing and she herself only told a little and that stuff was more sexual that those guys suggested some wierd sex stuff to her what made her feel uncomfortable. So its understandable that even she likes my company she till got little fear on her because other men, do i got alternative motive or im really that what i am around her..So i have told her few times during our meet that she makes me feel good and im honest on my words because it and im real with my acts and toughts and words..

Will see how future goes im not in the rush and going to take things slow but it seems little positively going with her because i havent heard “No” word for things like movie,cartoon,gaiming maraton that we just hang and have good time and i got little feeling she likes me a little but holds herself back a little because our past breakup and her depression and her past during our breakup..

Haha i got my mind open and so much text here but thats in my mind…

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