[man from finland]

Thanks 🙂 well we are not there yet and in relationship so cant yet call her really my gf..but i hope we get there and it goes well.At the moment im kinda little nervous good way to see her but its little pain because i dont know the day we see.because i wanna talk with her about things and not over a phone or text message.but i promised her we take this day by day..just hoping our talk didnt scare her much 😀 damn its 2.00 am at finland and i dont feel sleepy..

[man from finland]

Hello how is everbody? better or fine hope 🙂 im pretty ok myself was in hospital tough for a day and needed to go there by a ambulance,it was kinda scary 24 hours but i learned a lot from my ex too and about us..
long story short before that happened we have talked a little with whats app with my ex gf because we both have been little busy and i learned on that talk that she would feel wierd and wrong if she was dating somebody else while she is seeing me and she sayed that only man company she needs is me,

This happened to me last friday..we was supposed to meet with my ex gf because she was going to give me a ride to do some test nearest health center,but morning i felt little wierd and had chest pains on my left side and my left arm was little numb little later i felt that im so passing out.so i called ambulance because i live alone and they comed and took me to the hospital because they tought there is something wrong with my heart. I informed me ex gf about where im and she answered that do i want to her to come to me in the hospital,i sayed maybe because i wasnt sure what they was going to do with me and didnt want to my ex gf be there whole day…after long hours they told to me that they take me to the hospital ward under surveilance over night that they make sure all is ok and just to be safe.

When i got there and was setup under mobile heart observation device i informed my ex gf that she can come to see me if she wants.
She comed to see me and we hugged and she comed with mobile charger that i could charge my phone because my battery was dying. we went to lobby to talk while i charged the phone and during that talk i learned a lot more about us because she was been little scared to talk with me about one thing whole week before we was supposed to see each other, because it was about her to leave town for study to differend city in the end of nex year and she was scared talk about it with me i think?

I allready knew that because she has been talking about it from the first time we met,
i was happy for her because she finaly was found something she like to study and i wasnt scared about future because im taking thing between us day by day and we talked little more about us between questions about my health condition,she agreed that we are allmoust like couple and im like family to her so i asked in theory how she would feel if i say she is my girlfriend and she sayed it feels good and normal and i started to smile and we started hold hands and kept talking about many things,she was visiting me like hour.

I got out next day and got ride to home from my ex gf before she went to see band to differend city with her friend,during that evening i got few text to whats app from my ex gf that what im doing and she was little bored and lonely because had run out things to talk with her friend and band wasnt starting yet,i noticed she was little tipsy because she was little more flirty,we talked a litte and i sayed her good night and have nice night.Next day i got message morning band was good. i replied it of course,we talked again today little and sayed she is welcome visit me when she got time because she wasnt sure what day she see her old school friend this week and hoped she will inform what day that will be…im kinda waiting for that day..

and by the way im good in health it wasnt nothing about my heart it was my chest muscle what was hurt or infected somehow to make that pain but damn that was scary,so im going to flex more everyday for a while and take little more relax..

Thats my life lately 😀

[man from finland]

Well yes we broke up right before summer 2014 and i cut the contact at 01.2015 and she messaged me from email end of the 07.2017 so it about right 7 months no contact at all..dunno what this is but our chemistry and toughts sync and even she sayed that this feels “normal” and have feelings towards me too..i know she isnt ready for few things what i had in mind but maybe in time..to be honest i have to fight myself kinda lot not go well horny 😀 when i see her half naked in my place or sleeping right next to me half naked cuddling close to me 😀 but im gentleman and when time to comes that it will be worth a wait..

[man from finland]

Hello everybody how is going? I hope more good than bad 🙂 i have been little busy lately and i have spend some time with my ex gf and it usually leads to that she stays over night and sleep same bed with me..when spend some time yesterday when after little talking on whats app she comed over to make scans from her documents because she needed to do that. She sayed that she could pay me something for those scans and sayed she can pay me with kiss and hugg. She was happy to come myplace but i was little busy so i text her after few hours when i was back home and she comed to my place.while we was scanning her papers we talked about stuff and she sayed that she have talked her psyciatris about that i like her a little and she likes me too.her psyciatrist has asked her what she thinks about our future together..she left it blank and didnt say anything at the time but the way she was saying it happy with a smile i got positive vibes from it. I asked about it later and she gived me a answer that its maybe and with a smile and sayed she wants get to know me again with time.also i she told me that men gives her hmm how i can say it right anxiety or was it agony but not me.. things are going positive because last time she was myplace and we went to sleep she fell a sleep while she was holding my hand and my other hand was on her hip. Have nice day people and sorry for typos i was writing this on phone.

[man from finland]

Hello everybody how it is going? i hope some positive stuff has happened to people in this forum 🙂 i have been busy lately so i havent seen much my ex gf but me and she have texted a lot in whats app and she have even started to tell me where she is coming from and that she is ok and safe because those trips have been out from our town even when that i havent asked or talked her at all before that kinda message from her during the day..

My ex gf supriced me yesterday evening because she was supposed to come today to visit me and spend some with me, but she called after her hobby club around 19.00 with little laugh that she dont got nothing else for the evening and she is close with the car so could she come to my place.I sayed yes because i had nothing for that evening at the time and after little while she was at my door. She comed in and we talked kissed and hugged a little and she sayed that it was extempore thing to her to just come to see me and after it we went to living room and she sit down on my couch and asked me to what i wanna do with her? I bursted to big laugh and smile and sayed she cant ask that kinda thing from me at that moment and she got the idea what i had in my mind 😉 and laughed too that she isnt ready for it and i sayed i understand because i know what she has been thru. we talked a litte and she show me some clothes she bought during that her hobby club thing.

After a while we started play again because she asked and we had fun time we laugh and we was close to each other and kissed time to time, a while later she got hungry and she was so sorry about it because she didnt bring her own food, i sayed its ok i got some food if it ok to her and made her a little snack,after eating we stayed up little more and watched some tv and laughed that there is nothing good on and started to go to sleep, i have bought her a toothbrush because i kinda guessed that it will be ok to have ( told her earlier about that and she was on whats app: aawww 🙂 ) i gived her time to do her things before i went to brush my teeth and stuff, we went to my bed and tried to start to sleep after little while my ex gf sayed it feels odd that somebody is close but not touching so i moved closer to hold her and we kissed a little again.

she looked so relaxed and so nice that i had kinda hard time not to think about sex 😀 and she was half naked next to me so i had little hard time there and sayed about it to her but i sayed its ok because i know she is not ready and she sayed that its maybe little unfair to me that she is not feeling sex and wasnt ready for sex because what she had experienced after our breakup.

i started to feel too hot sleep because quilt was too warm so i moved on my side to a bed, after a while she wanted to hold my hand for a while andasked it is ok to me? i sayed yes and there we was trying to sleep and holding hands like we did when we was together.

At the morning we woke up and she woke up with a smile and sayed it felt good to do that extempore thing and come to see me,after she sayed that i comed under her quilt close to her and we hold each other there for a while and kissed time to time, i got hungry so i got up first and she stayed on bed looking so relaxed,after i eated my breakfeast i comed back to bedroom next to her and started to wake her up a little and we talked during it that this what we are “feels normal and good” and some other stuff during that talking i learned that she got me on her mind time to time on those times when we havent even talked or seen on that day few times a day and learned that what we are at the moment frighten her a little because what has happen to her after our breakup because she sayed first time we met that she didnt want any sort of affair and what happened at our breakup and why we breakup. I sayed that i understand her fear but our situation is differend now because we got more communication and she is getting help not to feel bad with deppression and our time together feels normal so just forget the fear because it was old relationship in our past.

She agreed and sayed she tries and i asked her what she wants to eat and offered her few ideas what i got as a food so i ended up to make her porridge and she laughed little with a smile from bed that her ex BF is making her porridge.

After it i started to do my own things,do the dishes and put dry clothes away from hanging while i gived her space eat in peace. we talked a little more after it and i get to know that she like”s me and it didnt feel odd or bad when i sayed that i like her. She wanted to go shop some food at close shop near by so i borrowed her my extra keys to get in to my house and did my own things at my place during while she was away. when she comed back we talked again little and i asked did it feel odd come with the key and she sayed no it didnt, i sayed good 🙂 and we little more time together and after it she while she was leaving we hugged and kissed and sayed goodbye.. after a while during that day we talked little more on whatss app and about news and stuff and what she had ordered from online and after a while she send me a pic that she bought fruit went bad from a shop and was going to return it..

That has been my late”s day with my ex lately 🙂

[man from finland]

Hmm it seems its about 8 hours the time interval on my post because here clock is 20.55 while im posting this 😀

[man from finland]

Well i think i take it slow because i feel no rush to ask her to be my GF just yet because we have been spending time together again not so long ago and she still got that depression all tough she feels better when is it with me, got message to my whats app that she enjoyed the evening and night with me and we talked a litte during a day and again at evening in here finland she send my text to whats app hello what im doing at the moment and do you mind if she is asking that from me? so we ended up texting a bit back and forward little teasing in mix and soft sexual talk and stuff and only got positive answers with smiley when i sayed that i wanted to kiss her and hold her little more at morning today and keep her close to me. Its just little wierd all this feels “normal” while we hang together and she feels same way too and it seems im more and more on her mind because she started conversation at the evening..

[man from finland]

Well hello everybody how you all doing? i havent been in this website for a while because i have been little sick and after it busy so no progress with my ex gf during that time. We met yesterday after some texting during morning on whats app. she comed my place again with bicycle at afternoon, when she got to my home she loiked like she could use shower so i gived her towel and some of my jeans and t-shirt to wear so after little talking,hugging and kissing she went to shower and we both laugh after it because during our morning talk on whatsapp

“i sayed we could try take nap together because she havent sleep well lately and because history together i have seen her naked so many times so its nothing to be shy about and she answered to that text that she is not getting naked on front of me and to that i sayed its ok to me and because she is little tired she should come with a car”

so she comed with bicycle and got naked front of me while i got her that towel and clothes and she sayed that i planned this to see her naked with a laugh and smile and i laughed back and sayed how could i, wanted to you come with a car 😀

after it we went to living room and she eated a little what she got with her and we talked a little during it and after it i asked what she wanted to do and she wanted to keep go forward that game we are playing and we played that and laughed and smile and had fun together and we both talked a little how its interesting that this what we are doing feels “normal” and between us must be something special and rare because we work so good together without any work and all things are easy between us.

after that talk we talked little bit about sex too that myself after breakup wanted something else with somebody than random sex and that proximity what couples got who are together i missed and my ex gf felt same way because after it she was at my arms next to me kissing, cuddle and she seemed to feel so good that she allmoust fell a sleep on my arms so i sayed maybe we could take a little nap on my bed and she agreed so we went to my bed and cuddled up close to each other and kissed and i kept her close to me and she looked so relaxed and beautiful we was on that bed like a hour and we ended up talk a bit stuff and cuddling and kissing and i kissed her neck too and shoulders and we hold hands and her hands stroke my arms and upper body gently because i was shirtless,after it we talked a little that she could come over night sometime because things between us feels so good and it was ok to if it was ok to her, she agreed and we got up to eat something and watch some tv during it..

my ex sayed that its started to get late and she got some stuff to do at morning that she was tired and i asked is she going to go home? she sayed she was too tired to do that so she ended up sleep on my bed, i stayed up little more because i wasnt tired and watched some tv and went to sleep next to her on my bed.

i woked up to her wake up call on phone and she woked up too and she looked like she could stay on my bed forever because she seemed so relaxed and she noticed that i was wake too and i got to next to her and we both was close to each other holding hands and kissing allmoust right away we wake up and kissed her neck and upper body, she seemed not to be so shy like yesterday because she was topless and and seemed more relaxed to be next to me that way,after a while she got up and i tried a sleep little more but i could so i got right before she was leaving and we hugged and kissed few times..

that was my day/night and morning with my ex gf 🙂 just keep your hope up people anything can happen when you least expect it, because i wasnt prepared that my ex gf stays a night with me.

[man from finland]

Thanks and yeah im taking things slow,but it seems my ex gf has looked more future to do things with me because she talked about ordering sport clothes from UK and we live in finland and doing yoga with me and just enjoy my company because it seems i have mostly only got positive feed back to things to do together..funny thing tough her psychiatrist sayed to her ( it seems she have talked about me in her sessions) that she should take me to run with her..i have sayed to her that more important thing to her is that she feels good mentally and physically so its ok if she it not feeling the mood come see me but it has been zero that kinda time this far 🙂

[man from finland]

Something positive for a change to this website 🙂

My ex gf comed to my place today again ( she walked to my place like 7.5 kilometers one way so she walked like 15 kilometers just to spend time with me ) and its rainy September in finland. She comed to my place whe talked a little while i was cleaning my eyeglasses and she was taking her shoes and outdoor clothes off,then we hugged and kissed and talked more and i gived her cold water to drink while she sat on my sofa and ate what she had with her,we talked little more and i asked what she wanted to do and she wanted to play something with me and relax because was little tired after a walk,we was supposed to do some yoga and she brought 2 yoga mat with her but i sayed it can wait little while we are not in rush..so we ended up to play few hours and having fun laugh,hug,kiss and i teased her a little kindly,after it we ended up watch some tv serie and i gived her Swiss roll and i ate few breads.

during watching and relaxing and just hanging with each other i sayed to her that its interesting that this what we are doing at the moment feels normal and maybe its our chemistry and little that,that we had to been together 3 years but this thing is rare and she agreed.after it she sayed it feels good just to be like this in that moment and little after it she started hold my hand when i sat next to her so i kissed her too,she hold my hand long time and let it go when i went to shut balcony door off and took my hand again and we continued watch more tv serie..after it i massaged a little her shoulders because they was little stuck.we continued our evening close to each other and kissing and just enjoying each other company and i sayed she looks beatifull and she sayed i look good too,

it was getting late and she was getting tired and had to walk home so she had to leave and i sayed i walk with her while because i need to go buy more food for tomorrow and during while we was putting outdoor clothes on i sayed it feels good that i can make her feel good and smile just being me because i have had bad luck lately on things and i really dont feel to be myself and we hugged long time after it i sayed i cant resist hug her more and kiss her because she looks so good and make little Grr noise after those when i was close to her after hug and kiss and kissed her neck. we went outside and to the elevator and we was close to each other talking and kissing and holding hands whole elevator ride down and we walked till it was time to me turn back we talked little more and hugged kissed and sayed goodbye and during that time my ex gf sayed that i look good and she like”s my beard and did same thing what i did few minutes ago and did little Grr noise after saying it 🙂 we departed and after a while i send her message to whats app that i hope she got home safe and healthy and good night and good big hug.she text back Yes i got,good night and hug 🙂 i replied
good 🙂 because i was little worried because i care about 🙂 and she answered
quite in vain 🙂

That was my day i hope this brings some positive hope to somebody who has lost his/hers ex because i have once”s and we are like this now…

[man from finland]

Well as a man who has unfriended ex gf i could say this..( she dumped me btw ) in sosial media spotify.facebook.whats app.. and many more application and stuff people can put their own picture and even text those things what they use..so after my breakup i kept my ex gf in some social apps but in one point i couldnt do it anymore because picture of her or text what i could see hurt so bad because i wasnt part their life anymore..so i blocked my ex on facebook.whats app. asked her to not follow me anymore on spotify and blocked/deleted from steam so that i could start healing and live my own life without the pain..(well in my texts there are a lot more info whats going on between me and my ex gf ) but i can say shortly after 7 months of total no contact she asked how im doing and do i wanna meet because i was in her mind from that point about month or little more she enjoys my company and we kiss and hug alot and even today got text that last time we met what was yesterday was fun. So dont take it as a negative thing

[man from finland]

Well im going slow because im no rush to anywhere and enjoy the ride 🙂 because it seems that experience my ex gf had with other men she tried to meet and stuff didnt give her what i could just being i, today was little grey and cold rainy day in finland but my evening got better ( its 18.44 now time when im writing this post) when i got message to whats app from my ex gf where was :” It was nice to see yesterday 🙂 ” so it seems our evening was in her mind whole day to this evening 🙂

[man from finland]

Well we met with ex gf today she comed to my place little after 16.00 pm and went home 21.00 and i walked her to her bicycle and we hugged and kissed for goodbye. During this day we hugged a lot kissed alot and i was touching around her body and she was touching my upperbody and smoothly touching my arms when we standed close to each other and talked..
i even made tear on her eye when we was hugging and kissing and sayed that i care for her and she can be relaxed and safe with me and i just wanna make her feel good and smile what i did she smiled a lot and laughed,we played a little some game she wanted and after it we paused it to do yoga.

because she wanted to do it with somebody it went pretty intimate because we started help each other out on some moves and she wasnt fearful to let me touch her body even in one point during that yoga she was at her back on floor and i come over her missionary postion ( we had clothes on) and i went so close that i could kiss her and i kissed her after it she sayed isnt this little dangerous? i sayed why? we both are single and enjoy each other company and i just wanna make her feel better and smile after me saying that she hugged and kissed me. after yoga we watched some x-files tv serie and after it we played little more because she wanted it we did that little while when she got tired and was ready to go home.

Sorry about errors in my text my english isnt so perfect 😀 but that was my day today with my ex-gf and if somebody has tough how old we are im 30. and she is 25..

[man from finland]

Well we didnt see each other today like we was supposed so and my ex made the first contact how was my day going and do i wanna see her today..i sleeped late today because had my little brother visit me at saturday evening to late at night ( we havent spend time together with my little brother a while so it was fun ans my little brother asked to come my place ) my ex gf had busy day and it went so late that she was tired so we talked little on whats app she send me a picture about her apartment and the free space she have now after selling few furnitures from her place and in that picture was text:” you coming to my place some time to visit? 🙂 “

[man from finland]

Well Bat i was wash the dishes and had music on because i do it by hand so i didnt notice message earlier because it was so late at evening so i tough none would wanna contact me and i got message from her today too at morning where was Good morning 🙂

Well we broke up last year just before summer so we have been apart 1 year and few months on that and i did total NC like 7 months i cut all connections to her and chainced phone number and started live my own life and about after 7 months she send me a email where was shortly: hello how are you doing and how has you been? and our communication started from that…There is more info from my other posts if you are interested Bat 🙂

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