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  • in reply to: mine is hopeless #37312
    Malinda
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    Thanks alot! But its too late for me I guess, I made all of the mistakes even maybe the ones that were not told.

    in reply to: mine is hopeless #37263
    Malinda
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    I’m kinda giving up…I feel as he already did.
    We broke up quite number of times before, this is the final one I guess.
    What is there to say ” I will not forget you ” as if saying it to someone he came a cross on his way just for fun had some enjoying memories, what the hck! this thought drives me crazy… it means this time its over for sure

    in reply to: mine is hopeless #37262
    Malinda
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    Did I sound immature.. 🙂
    30 and 34

    in reply to: mine is hopeless #37255
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    Today is 6th day of NC and nothing..This time he is not going to bother himself contacting me in any way, he quit his current job and leaving for his homeland soon don’t know exactly when but soon…Then he will be leaving for another country for this new job and will be making a new beginning for himself without me, he doesn’t bother at all none..I’m so mad. He doesn’t care about me at all, doesn’t even bther thinking of me I’m sure, happy with his life without me as he is relieved. :'(
    I have done NC before and it has worked but I just couldn’t use that well I was so stupid that I fall for his words only, lies that I should have waited for real actions but no I didn’t and he took advantage of it again and did the same thing so its all my mistake.
    He just let it finish so easy, accepted everything that he should leave me behind which I think was not difficult for him at all, cuz he doesn’t give a sht at all..
    He is over for sure this time.

    in reply to: mine is hopeless #37068
    Malinda
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    Hi, sorry to hear that but you just can’t help with not feeling that way. They are pure selfish and maybe they are doing it the right way, I’m also thinking about going far away, hes not leaving that far. I did really think and feel about sharing the rest of my life with him but hes leaving just like that easy and today is 5th day of nc and there’s nothing from him, I just can’t believe how it be this easy for him, so sad. I will also build a new life for myself so far away…sometimes I’m so mad at him, sometime miss him so bad and sometimes full with anger how could he be this selfish while telling he loves me all bs, all lie, just odd words only, played with me like a toy.

    in reply to: mine is hopeless #36963
    Malinda
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    I’m so very stupid

    in reply to: I think I'm going to end the friendship #36610
    Malinda
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    You should do no contact!

    in reply to: NC killing me..as she looks cool and full of anger #23372
    Malinda
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    No I think she will just realise and will be curious what happened all of a sudden that you cut contact with her…then maybe will start to think positive things…
    Its really funny the way how I think and speak wise about one another’s situation while I’m having hard time with mine and thinking all negative.

    in reply to: NC killing me..as she looks cool and full of anger #23364
    Malinda
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    @rahul it maybe because of it was unbearable and miserable and so painful for her when you left her, thats the anger…give her some space and try to be patient and continue being kind

    Malinda
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    @kalicooldude I’ve been wanted to mary my ex, and it lasted for 2 years…we broke up last Friday…I was very very angry and mad at him for fooling me again, yelled at him told him to do whatever shts he wants and hang up the phn without saying a goodbye. Then hes emailing me the next day saying a part of him finished us sometime ago as if I didnt clear it all up over the phn a day before, saying sorry about hurting me blah blah..just to hurt me more

    Malinda
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    @kalicooldude In the beginning its like one day seem like a month but day by day it gets a little bit easier for you to continue stronger..

    Malinda
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    @kalicooldude sounds like she still has feelings for you from what I read but I still can not know it anyway…Way to go with the NC, I believe it will work out someway..

    in reply to: NC killing me..as she looks cool and full of anger #23354
    Malinda
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    @rahul
    Hi,
    First try to see the problem…why is she angry with you this much ? That she wanted to marry with you even but you didn’t want it ?

    in reply to: her ex has come back on the scene #23342
    Malinda
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    How did you react by the way after she said she needs time to think whether she loves you

    in reply to: her ex has come back on the scene #23341
    Malinda
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    I think you should not call her or text or anything, just give her the time she needs…my opinion

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