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@JeanValins @Gingerone @KD1988 Thank you for your comments, I appreciate them.
I thought deactivating my acc will be good for myself as I cant stop myself keep checking his page but then I’ve decided to remain active because if I deactivate he will think its because of him and it would seen as weak thats how.He is leaving the country in a few days maybe he already did I don’t know, there is no hope in fact cuz he doesn’t want to commit, doesn’t think about marriage at all. He told me if I ever change my mind then go alongwith him, I said I will not change my mind for sure, this was when we talked last time 13 days ago. I just cant believe hes going away just like that easy and leaving me behind as I have meant nothing to him. He has mentioned about that maybe some self sacrifice should be made but he did not do anything at all, so selfishly going away.
Its just so sad to let it go. I let him ruin my life but nothing changed in his life, hes just going with his own plans so selfishly and all his sweet words were in fact just lies and for running around.
I have to do a new start for myself I guess..sigh**Thanks alot!! It meant a LOT to me really…and you’re so right. I will try so hard doing things I enjoy and focus on myself, I will start with gym and then drumming…
Yes others see and understand the situation better. You have done all you could so now give her time to be able to see what you have done for her and to be with her, she will realize and miss you if you can manage to stay strong and get busy with yourself
Its good that you have the confidence that you can live without him but you want him back. I guess you have a good chance on getting him back with acting cool and limited contacts, letting him miss you. Maybe he wants to have the excitement that you had before. You should focus on yourself, keeping you busy with the activities you like, somethings interesting maybe
I changed my mind that I’m not deactivating my fb acc, it will be better remaining indifferent I guess. Today is day day 13 of NC…nothing I got 🙁
Well you cant really force anyone to do something and if she really does love you she will be back but you should let her go for now. I’m no different than how you feel, and what I just said are so very difficult for me too eventhough I’m aware of what is right. Its so hard and sad but we have to learn how to live without them…Oh gosh I feel so terrible, I’m in a terrible situation and advicing somethings that I myself do the opposite
You should give it a time, once you get busy with yourself and all then good things happen when least expected you know… But *sigh* its just so easy to tell these, the hard part is trying to focus yourself on other things for real.
He has all girls attention around him, im going mad i am so lost, please anybody? I do really need it so very bad :'(
It was all , almost all my mistake, nobody’s…I was so impatient about everything.
I beg for your few words, comments please…I left my last job 10 days ago, changed 3 jobs while these past two years with him and finally i sold my car and my parents friends telling me it was all because him happened and hes not good for me, I’m miserable now I don’t fkng know what to do, where to start, all upside-down. I have told him to marry me 3 months after we started dating, i did feel deep inside i could share the rest of my life with him…I just now don’t know what to do…Im lost and hes leaving me behind just like that easy I hate him
Day 8 of NC, No text No Call No email nothing, hes gone, is never ever gonna contact me he doesn’t even care at all. I feel miserable, I don’t feel like doing anything..so low I hate this
It seems like you have a high chance about getting her back but you need to be patient and try hard to stay calm I guess..You should do NC and make her realise what really is important to her and what she is going to lose but while you replying she will know that you are still there
