[lynxx]

I’d find someone else to rely on. This is going to feel like a huge unwanted burden to your ex so it be a major mistake to bring her this bad news. Find other female friends that you are close too or reach out to a support group in real life or even online. It will help just to talk about it with others. And unfortunately there are many in your shoes.

This is something way too heavy for an ex-gf to bear on her shoulders. Worst of all, she’s going to feel like she has to talk to you even though she might want to spend time with someone else just because you are going through this. And she can even begin to resent you for it. Continue NC and leave her out of it. And although you may find talking to her about a serious situation comfortable, like others said-it’s not going to have a positive affect on your state of affairs with her. It’s not her role in your life anymore to be the one that you rely on when bad things happen. That’s like the hardest part of any breakup to accept.

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