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I know!! Did you have a chance to look at my post? I could really use some feedback on my situation
I’m sure he misses you! You should do the same thing!!! Appear happy, even if you’re not! That’s what I’ve been doing. He checks my snapchat stories, so I know he’s checking up on me which is nice :)!
I miss him so much and wish he would just text me but he hasn’t even tried contacting me which makes this NC so much harder. Cuz it feels like I’m the only one suffering meanwhile I’ve no idea if he even lies awake at night over this lol
Hi! I’m currently 15 days into NC and it’s definitely hard!!!! Just keep busy and try not to think of him. although that’s nearly impossible as I still think of my ex every day lol
I’ve gone on Pinterest and have found that helps me a lot! I’m going to print out quotes and put them in my room so I’m surrounded by good thoughts 🙂 also I’m printing out stuff with the message “if it’s meant to be, it will be” & “some people are meant to fall apart only to realize they’re meant to be together in the end” type thing. This gives me hope that my ex and I can make it work and I need hope because hope is the only thing keeping me from going insane at this point.
Please can you check out my post “Do I still have a shot at getting him back??” I would like you to read through my situation, and give me your advice in return 🙂
You got this girl!
Honestly, you said she’s not independent. Why would you want to be with a girl, who’s going to be so interested in TRYING TO FIND SOMEONE ELSE?? Don’t you see? She’s trying to replace you, if she can’t, she’ll go back to you. Thus… Making you Plan B??
You really wanna be her second option?? Why do you still want to be with her? It doesn’t make sense?
In my personal opinion, I would show her what it’s like to miss you. NC for 30 days ALL THE WAY.
You said you’re scared that she’ll move on and find a new BF in this 30 days… NO SHE WONT. If she does… Then that’s insane and stupid , and then you’re better off without her anyway. If she really cares about you, she couldn’t get over you that quickly.
Don’t ever settle for being someone’s plan B.
I think you should definitely start the NC! Which means no talking, no hanging out, no sending pictures!!
To me it sounds like you’re being so nice to her and doing all these things to get her back! STOP! It’s only going to show her that that’s all you want (surely it is but she can’t know that). Why keep dating her once or twice a week, when she tells you, she doesn’t want to be in a committed relationship with you right now?
What you guys are doing right now, isn’t going anywhere. You need to stop ALL contact for at least 30 days and give yourself and her time to heal AWAY from each other! That’s my advice.
She needs to realize what it’s like to LOSE you too!!! And you’re not showing her that by sending daily love reminders.
I’m on day 9 of NC and holy F! It feels like it’s been a lifetime 🙁 It sucks when you go from talking 24/7 to BOOM. Nothing. It’s terribly hard on me. (If you havent read about my situation, you can read it, i posted it in a seperate forum) Everytime something happens (good or funny etc) i want to text him and tell him.. only to remember. Wait! I can’t 🙁
He hasn’t texted me either since he broke up with me. However, he does check my snapchat stories 😀 😀 on which i appear happy. (although im far from it in reality)
I wish NC would get easier. Tomorrow I’m going to text his mom Happy mothersday out of respect to her, because i do LOVE his family and his family loves me <3
I agree. NC is the best.
She clearly doesn’t know what she wants so by doing NC it gives her time to think about her decisions. I think the NC is also essential because that’s the only way she’ll reaaaally know what it’s like without you.
Hope it works out. But definitely keep doing the NC.
