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  • in reply to: Struggling – day 7 NC #27700
    Libertine1
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    Btw, timeline with him was that they met somewhere, and were texting. She never pursued it, because she was with me. Her parents knew of him and after I added that photo of me and my friend on Facebook, they went mental at her for choosing me and urged her to see him.

    in reply to: Struggling – day 7 NC #27699
    Libertine1
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    Thanks Caz πŸ™‚ I have a feeling they will make a relationship official soon. But she still has that sad picture. Who knows what is going on inside her head πŸ™

    How are you today?

    in reply to: Struggling – day 7 NC #27680
    Libertine1
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    Obviously, they are serious enough to get to this level. We never reached that level. πŸ™

    in reply to: Struggling – day 7 NC #27671
    Libertine1
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    Bad news….the parents added him to facebook. πŸ™

    in reply to: Struggling – day 7 NC #27614
    Libertine1
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    Thanks Caz. Just to update you, the profile picture is private again, but she has kept it as her profile picture. So, the lockdown continues. I dunno.

    We shall see. It’s not often that a girl is berated to tears for choosing her boyfriend and made to see someone else against her will.

    We will do this πŸ™‚

    in reply to: Struggling – day 7 NC #27589
    Libertine1
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    She is seeing him. Her friends follow him on Facebook. He posts videos she likes and he changes her Facebook picture into joke ones sometimes. They definitely are seeing eachother.

    I just have to hope she misses me (somehow, I mean who misses a stalker who is mean and cheated on her?) and that her parents change their mind, which they won’t. It feels so hopeless. And she wouldn’t have been speaking to him in the first place if she didn’t like him. Not sure how they met. Think it may have been on a night out.:(

    Time will tell. Sorry. I feel so down. I cannot think too much into the Facebook picture. It could mean so many things.

    I am determined to be more positive tomorrow. Thank you so much πŸ™‚ you help me so much

    in reply to: Struggling – day 7 NC #27580
    Libertine1
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    I just think she doesn’t care. She is probably upset about her ex, will miss home and her family and is probably looking forward to being with the other guy, when back. I don’t figure in the equation. πŸ™

    Sorry, having a bad day, feel really stressed. I am glad you are feeling better. You have done so well and have every reason to feel positive πŸ™‚ keep it up and you will get him back!

    in reply to: Struggling – day 7 NC #27544
    Libertine1
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    Thanks Caz. I get haunted by these things so much. I now question whether I was a big deal for her and wonder if she has just moved on πŸ™ day 17 yes πŸ™‚ we have to keep strong.

    How has your day been?

    in reply to: Struggling – day 7 NC #27517
    Libertine1
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    I fear I went too far though. 3 straight months of begging, name calling, suicide threats and saying horrible things to hurt he. It is horrible to even think about these things. And I kept saying I would stop and apologise, then I would do it again. πŸ™

    I can only abide the process and hope.

    in reply to: Struggling – day 7 NC #27482
    Libertine1
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    Well, she had a fake account to spy on me before I got Facebook to delete it. Who knows though. Maybe the fact that she made her profile picture public was an an oversigh. It could be sa, as she is leaving her home again to come back here, her other ex getting a new gf. Who knows. I dunno. I fear I have been too craz. I think I scared her, I was that crazy. I even threatened to come to where she lives, so that we could talk. I didn’t ever do that though. But I did anything to show her silence was making things worse or to provoke a response πŸ™

    in reply to: Struggling – day 7 NC #27476
    Libertine1
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    Exactly, time and patience. Although saying that, I feel very impatient today. She has made this profile picture public. Who knows if it is deliberate or not? Who knows if it relates to me. But she still has not unblocked me πŸ™

    in reply to: Struggling – day 7 NC #27461
    Libertine1
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    It’s never too late. Come back as a new person. Don’t expect it to be the She though. For instance, I probably have to come back as a friend and build from there. You were in lov. It does not didissappear,despite what he may say.

    in reply to: Struggling – day 7 NC #27444
    Libertine1
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    And you are doing all the correct things. You can get him back, I know you can!

    in reply to: Struggling – day 7 NC #27426
    Libertine1
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    I think it will bother him. Sorry, but you two have been through too much now. I think on here you will find success stories from people who were told by their ex that they didn’t love them anymore. There is always hope, as long as you do the correct thing. And you’re doing the correct thing at this moment πŸ™‚

    in reply to: Struggling – day 7 NC #27423
    Libertine1
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    I think from an outside perspective you have such a good chance of getting him back. He basically loves you,but you need to give him space and come back a different person. He will miss you. It’s only dead when they don’t love you and they are indifferent.

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