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I know, 18! I am doing good, thanks! Yesterday was an awful day ha. But it will be better today, as I have plenty of friends to see!
What are your plans?
Hi Caz! Nearly 3 weeks! I cannot believe how far we have come 🙂 how are you feeling today?
That’s true. Maybe thay is why she is depressed. Because he doesn’t want to take things that far? I dunno but in thay case, it is not about me.
Ha, not really. Went for drinks after work, and accidentally splurged to a colleague, who responded that it was probably inappropriate to talk about it with colleagues. I feel so embarrassed. I would never usually be like it. I miss the old me. I feel so hopeless right now. So, her best friend followed this guy on facebook 2 weeks ago, he the guy did not accept the friend request. Now her parents have done the same thing, and he has not accepted their friend request either.
I feel like it is all against me, I feel so weak. This guy is probably strong, charismatic and fun. Whereas I am now a mess 🙁
Sorry. Ignore my problems. You have different circumstances than me and you are becoming the person he loves again. You are on your way to getting him back 🙂
Keep on track! There is a way back. The way you are feeling is part of the process.
We will see. I think she has moved on though 🙁 some people told me I could wait for 100 years and she would still not come back. I was thay bad 🙁
Come on, be optimistic! Your history alopecia enough to keep you in contac. An experience of having cancer creates such a special bond. He just needs spac. As I said, it is still early 🙂 you are doing this for yourself and him.
Please do not think like that. He obviously means a lot to you and he deserves someone amazing like you! I think a letter may help him. You have to show you are a new person 🙂
She probably isn’t wondering. She knows that I know she is in her home country. So probably expects me not to contact her 🙁
I just had this insecurity that she would find someone better and I am constantly comparing myself. I also feel that she doesn’t love me 🙁
She probably just thought I was so annoying.
He does love you, Caz. It is still very early. You created an air of mystery, to which he may respond to, and if not, come back into his life as a new person. You can come back as a friend and build from there!
I believe you will, and if not he will respond to the magic letter. I dunno, still not good. So worried, I just feel that the whole situation is wrong. I just miss her so much. It feels strange to think we are enemies and she is with someone else. It was so quick. One moment we are planning for the future, and then all of a sudden my world turned upside down. I dunno. I just keep thinking they will make a relationship official 🙁
We will see how it goes. Hopefully you get some good news soon! You seen a lot happier. It is so good to see. I think the worst thing is the uncertainty.
It really helps to just talk about it with someone who understands 🙂
These are testing times for both of us and we have done so well so far!
I am afraid that the picture of her is sad because of her ex she was with for 5 years getting into a relationship, who knows 🙁
I have to keep strong. We both do. This is just the beginning, it can take months to reconcile
I hope so. Everything seems against me. Me behavior, the circumstances behind the split. Her parents and her friends. Even she ostrcacised me.
I will keep going. It’s all I can do. I think you have every chance. Look at some of the posts here. It is not unusual to hear someone say that their ex texted them after a month, 2 or even 3 months of no contact 🙂
I have work and am quite busy. Very tired though, as I couldn’t sleep last night. No job next week for you 🙂 3 weeks for us next week too 🙂
