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Yes, we are undoing all the damage now. We are doing the correct things to get them back. I am so sad that you cried. There is still so much hope, be positive 🙂
My friend told me that from a girl’s perspective, it puts you off so much when someone acts the way I acted. Ok, I am having a bad day. I need to redirect my attention.
Please, keep strong yourself. We will get to 3 weeks and feel good again soon!
Haha! Exactly, I was thinking the same thing lol.
Yes, I think they will be! But I am hoping that my ex is not too busy chasing someone else… ok, I should just not think like that.
Yes, we should be proud! Imagine if we carried on messaging them! I think we have done amazing. haha
And yes, they will definitely be thinking where we have gone! Imagine someone texting you constantly for weeks, and then stops. You would definitely wonder!
I know, 3 weeks soon! We have done so well, Caz! We will keep strong!
I dunno, our relationship wasn’t that long, who knows. She had insecurity issues. At the moment I do not have that much hope. But I will just keep going and build myself up again. I feel better, just resigned tbf.
I hate the uncertainty, not knowing what is going on in their minds.
That is true, yes. I am not sure. But one thing for sure – all the effort is coming from her side 🙁 who knows. I am so confused. Maybe she liked the other guy more than me anyhow, and all this stuff about parents etc was just an excuse… 🙁
That is such a great idea! I jigsaw will definitely take your mind off of things! And exactly, we have built this thing up much now, that breaking it would be unthinkable! I hope you have a much better day today. Plus, you start a new job, which means you will also get to meet lot’s of new exciting people!
Keep positive!
Well the main thing is you were strong and did not contact him! I really don’t know how I feel. A great day yesterday, but thinking about the situation again.
Obviously, she likes this other guy a lot, otherwise her parents and best friend would not have friend requested him. Although, he is being elusive and not accepting the requests. Something tells me that she is fully immersed in this relationship 🙁
Caz, please don’t be sad! It’s just emotions. Your mind is playing tricks on you, making it feel like a hopeless situation, and it really isn’t. I know the feeling, you have guilt mixed into the equation, which is never helpful. But you are strong enough to get through this, and I am sure he cares a lot for you. You have both been through a lot together and it is impossible for him not to think about the good times you had together.
Hey Caz! Had a good day with my dad and his friends. Just meeting my friend now. But don’t be so down. Be positive, he hasn’t moved on. Love isn’t a switch you can turn off, no matter what he says. Please don’t be disheartened.
We are both in the same boat. I think April will be a really good time. So you have any holidays or trips lined up in the meantime?
Exactly, and no, me neither. Just to know it has been done. But still wait until April and keep Facebook on lockdown, so she will wonder.
But that is how to get him back. Prove to him you have changed and be mysterious, so he will wonder if you have anyone!
Caz, I believe he has the courtesy to respond. Approach it as wanting to be friends.
Hmmm, he does need to chase you, that is true. But you need to do some things first. Firstly, give him space to miss and chase you. Secondly, show him you have changed, space will also do this. Thirdly, show him you have changed again and show him that you care, the magic letter will do this. Hopefully he responds, if he doesn’t go no contact again. If he does, then use the lessons you have learnt from no contact (such as patience) to allow him to chase you.
You have done so well!
I know! I never imagined myself doing it. I remember at the start, trying to give it two weeks, I just couldn’t do it! After 3 months of almost texting every day, this is an achievement.
I messaged the girl I cheated on my ex with today. I apologised for the way I reacted afterwards, as I blamed her – and I also provoked conversations on whatsapp, so that I could send to my ex to prove I didn’t want that girl. My ex simply responded that it was good enough and that she was angry.
I think you just have to clear your mind. After 30 days you may have different thoughts about him and the relationship. Then you can use that for when you eventually write your magic letter. Perspective is everything. Keep going, you have done so well. Do you think you would make the same mistakes if you entered into the relationship with him again?
