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Also, Caz, remember to have fun with your friends when you go out. Make sure you take pictures, so he can see you are having fun!
Wow! This is so good! He misses you. Just keep up the no contac. It is working,Caz!
If I were to say that this text meant nothing and wasn’t him reaching out, then I would be naive. Remember, you really did think he had forgot about you! Keep up no contac, give it as long as you need. Maybe he will even text again! But he is definitely thinking about you. Just think also, why get in touch with you? Why not just leave it? You have done so well!
Ha, thanks Caz. But she has moved on. There is no way back. All of my friends agree. It wasn’t a long term relationship and it is extremely hard for her to come back, even if she wanted to, which she doesn’. It simply will not happen.
Caz, i am so happy and proud of you! You are doing the correct thing in not texting him, you will really get him to chase now. You are doing it! And I doubt you could have resisted texting back a few weeks ago! I knew he would text!
Ermmm, I am resigned to never getting her back now which I think it progress. Everything is stacked against me. She didn’t probably love me that much. She loves that guy now. I cheated on her. Her parents hate me, and I have been absolutely crazy texting almost every day multiple times absolutely mental stuff and horrible things, nor just to her, but friends and fanily. This is to the extent that she either pitys me or is scared. I have to accept that and move on.
I saw on the guy’s wall today that she had liked one of his videos. She would never usually like something on his or anyone’s wall. I have to accept it and forget about her. And in truth, I feel ok about it.
Caz! Congratulations! I told you 🙂 I agree with Patrick, do not reply!
Please, tell me all about it!
No, the more likely he is to miss you and see you in a different light! Be optimistic.
Jeez, with my situation, it was so messed up. She was being so cold. I remember, in September, this girl I knew asked to stay over because she had no where else to stay. We then slept together, because I felt so lonely. In the morning I felt really bad with a new determination to make things work.
The next day, my ex text saying she was in London, which was unusual, because she had said she was busy in evenings, too busy to see me. So, I asked her if she wanted break up. She said yes, which was so strange, as I suggested breaking up the week before for a trial, and she complained of chest pains, she was so scared of losing me.
We then met up that evening. I remember, we were on a tube train and we would usually hold hands. She reached out, and then remembered. I then remember her start crying on a packed train, before we then walked to a location to talk about things. It was so emotional, and she lied – saying she wanted to go to Australia and didn’t want to set herself up for heartbreak with me. It was only later in the evening that some truth came out and she went hysterical, saying that me changing my profile picture changed everything and that it hurt her so much. She cried and explained that her parents nor her could understand why I did it.
She then told me that she had been trying to get over me and had been trying so hard. She said that she was scared of falling anymore in love with me, in case she got hurt. It was terrible, I could see she still loved me in that moment.
Then it was only the next day, when I looked on Facebook, when I discovered the full truth and betrayal. Gah, sorry, had to get that out.
Feelings change all the time! I don’t think you are in a situation with no return. Trust me, you can get him back and he probably misses you. You were easy to get before, and he knew he could have you any time. Now you are elusive.
Noo, she will not be back. Trust me. I can even send the most amazing magic letter, and she will not.
Hmm, that is interesting. I think we both have a very old and pure philosophy on what love should be. It is hell, thinking of them being with someone else.
I think you will heal enough to be ok with that. After I split up from my ex, I got with quite a lot of girls, they did not mean anything to me though – it was in order to help me cope. Just see how things go.
Ha, she is never coming back. I would love a false friendship – because I know that she cannot talk to or see me without feeling something, which is why she could not see me to give me closure.
Trust me, I know, I have a good instinct. And I realise it could take years before she learns to resent them. I am in the worst possible situation. I doubt there is coming back. But I have learnt a lot.
Hmm, yea – I realise it is quite hard to be in that position. Obviously you do not want to hear about if he is sleeping with someone. But, you have to see things from a different perspective. You have to turn the tables and make him worried about who you might be sleeping with. You have to heal before you can do this though.
Keep to the plan! I think it will turn out good for you! If you cannot get him back straight away, then come back as a false friend. I think you can at least do that!
I am trying to be optimistic, but cannot. There is so much against me, Caz. Too much. Her parents like this guy, she seems to like him enough. She will be in a long term relationship with him now, and be pleased to be rid of me.
He will! He seems to respect you. My ex lost all respect for me and ostracised me. You are doing all the right things!
Just give it time and follow your plan! Don’t expect instant results!
But you see, she will not miss me. And I put her off so much, due to my craziness. That is why I think it is impossible.
Yes, do it! Let him know that you are having fun and that you can have fun without him! Make sure you do this 🙂
I was particularly mental though, right? I mean, I text her constantly for 3 months without any response. Complete madness!
Awww, I did that too for a bit, changed my photo to the one which was her favourite of mine. Now I have a photo which shows what an awesome Christmas I had. I am sure he does look at you profile!
